Understanding autism
Autism is not a line from mild to severe. Your child has their own profile of strengths and challenges, and it will not match the one you read about online. The point of learning this is not to get a label right, it is so the words coming at you from doctors and schools stop sounding like another language.
Articles & Guides
3What Is Autism? The Basics
Plain language answers to the questions you're about to hear from doctors and schools.
Understanding Stimming
What stimming is, why it helps your child, and why stopping it is usually the wrong goal.
Understanding ADHD: A Guide for Parents
ADHD and autism overlap constantly. This covers what to look for and what it means.
Books
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So Your Child Was Just Diagnosed with Autism
Rob Gorski
My book for the parent who just got the news. Everything on this page comes from it.
Written from twenty-five years of parenting autistic kids, not from theory.

The Unbreakable Boy
AffiliateScott LeRette
Scott LeRette's story of raising his son, later adapted into a feature film.

Uniquely Human
AffiliateBarry M. Prizant, Ph.D.
Barry Prizant's case for understanding autistic behavior instead of trying to erase it. A perspective shift for a lot of parents.

From Struggle to Strength
AffiliateHarry Psaros
Harry's account of raising his son Gus, from the earliest signs onward. Another autism dad who went and wrote it down.

My One-of-a-Kind Body
AffiliateWhitney Casares, MD, MPH, FAAP
A book for your kid, not for you. Plain, friendly, and it shows bodies that work in different ways as a matter of course.
One of the only things on this page written for the child rather than the parent.
Podcasts
5The Autism Dad Podcast
Rob Gorski
Honest conversations about autism parenting, from our family to yours.
Understanding Comorbid Diagnoses
The Autism Dad Podcast, S7E26
Autism rarely travels alone. A pediatric neurologist explains what else to watch for.
Understanding ADHD
The Autism Dad Podcast, S7E37
ADHD and autism travel together constantly. Dr. Melillo on what is actually happening in the brain.
The Brain Isn't Broken, It's Inflamed
The Autism Dad Podcast, S9E15
Dr. Theoharides on neuroinflammation and what the research is actually showing. Read the disclaimer in the episode description first.
The Unbreakable Boy: A Father's Journey
The Autism Dad Podcast, S8E04
Scott LeRette on raising his son, in his own voice. Pairs with his book in the Books section.
Blogs & Websites
1The Autism Cafe
Eileen Lamb
Eileen Lamb writes as both an autism parent and an autistic adult.
Accounts to Follow
1Jimmy Clare
Jimmy Clare
An autistic speaker and podcaster worth following if you want an autistic adult's perspective.
Organizations
4Autism Society of America
One of the country's oldest autism organizations, with local chapters and a national helpline.
Autistic Self Advocacy Network (ASAN)
Advocacy and plain-language resources led by autistic people themselves.
Cleveland Clinic
Autism diagnosis and care through its Center for Autism.
Autism Science Foundation
Research funding and plain-language science for parents who want the evidence.
Every step here comes from So Your Child Was Just Diagnosed with Autism
This page is the book's living companion, kept current so the help you need is never out of date.
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