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You're not a bad parent and here's why
Inspirational Posts5 min read

You're not a bad parent and here's why

Parenting is hard. There are no two ways about it. Parenting kids with unique challenges like autism, ADHD, anxiety, mental illness, or other physical/emotional disability can be even more...

December 7, 2021

The Truth is I'm Not Okay
Inspirational Posts6 min read

The Truth is I'm Not Okay

I swear to God it feels like I’m always apologizing for not writing enough. I don’t know why I feel the need to do that but clearly I do. I guess that I feel as though I’m letting people down when I...

August 11, 2021

Let's Talk About Respite
Inspirational Posts5 min read

Let's Talk About Respite

I want to talk about something that's really important and most parents don't get enough of. If you're a special needs parent, you're probably all too familiar with the word respite. Basically,...

August 4, 2021

This might help you get to know me better
Inspirational Posts8 min read

This might help you get to know me better

I know there are people out there who are new to this blog or maybe just getting to know me, so I thought now might be a great time to share an update that focuses on my journey. I haven't done one...

June 4, 2021

This is the most deeply personal thing I've ever written
Inspirational Posts7 min read

This is the most deeply personal thing I've ever written

Tomorrow is never guaranteed. We're only ever guaranteed right now, in this moment. So often these moments get wasted. I'm guilty of doing that myself, far more often than I'd like to admit. I was...

April 29, 2021

My Moment of Clarity
Inspirational Posts3 min read

My Moment of Clarity

I woke up this morning, super early, filled with clarity, and laser focused. The laser focused part might be a bit of an exaggeration but I wish I was laser focused. The clarity part is very true,...

April 20, 2021

We need to have a talk
Inspirational Posts7 min read

We need to have a talk

So apparently I was on TV again over the last few days. I didn't know anything about it. My brother messaged me last night to say that he was going through the guide on his TV and he heard my voice...

January 4, 2021

Helping my son learn to forgive
Inspirational Posts8 min read

Helping my son learn to forgive

I had a very challenging morning with my youngest. He's a ball of rage and pain and fear and anger. He got into it with his brothers this morning and just exploded. This isn't who he is but rather...

November 26, 2020

That's what makes you awesome
Inspirational Posts4 min read

That's what makes you awesome

I don't know if you're new here or not but in case you are, you should know that I see a therapist every Wednesday. I feel like it's important to share that because there's too much stigma...

November 19, 2020

A long overdue, deeply personal update
Inspirational Posts5 min read

A long overdue, deeply personal update

It's been a little while since I've really talked about how I'm doing on a personal level. There's not really a reason for that I'm just a bit overwhelmed and when this happens, it's not as easy for...

October 9, 2020

What kind of person shames a special needs parent?
Inspirational Posts10 min read

What kind of person shames a special needs parent?

Shaming special needs parents is not okay. It's not. I want to take a moment before we get into this I want to briefly talk about the shaming of special needs parents. Frankly, this applies to any...

October 1, 2020

Therapy is helping me become better
Inspirational Posts3 min read

Therapy is helping me become better

I had therapy yesterday and I feel like I'm making progress. I'm the picture of imperfection and I'm the first to admit that but the last to forgive myself for it. This last year has been incredibly...

September 18, 2020

Finding something positive in the remote learning chaos
Inspirational Posts3 min read

Finding something positive in the remote learning chaos

There are a million reasons why this school year is a nightmare for so many students and families. Parents are struggling to find balance and that included me. I don't see how kids are going to...

September 16, 2020

I've been a single parent for exactly 1 year today and I have some thoughts
Inspirational Posts4 min read

I've been a single parent for exactly 1 year today and I have some thoughts

It's been one year since I became a single parent again. I've said before that I'm really weird with milestones and anniversaries because they mark moments in my life that were impactful for whatever...

August 12, 2020

My little victory over #depression and a gentle reminder to all of you
Inspirational Posts4 min read

My little victory over #depression and a gentle reminder to all of you

First of all, I really appreciate all the love and support. We're all in this together and I sometimes forget that. Thank you for the many reminders. &x263a; I wanted to share a bit more about...

August 9, 2020

Navigating The In-Between
Inspirational Posts5 min read

Navigating The In-Between

So last night was pretty rough. We're coming up on the one year mark since Lizze moved out and while I feel like the kids are doing better, there's still a tremendous amount of pain. Each of the kids...

August 5, 2020

To Whom This May Concern: I Am In My Lane
Inspirational Posts5 min read

To Whom This May Concern: I Am In My Lane

I shared my recent interview with ABC Newshttps://www.theautismdad.com/2020/07/29/i-spoke-on-abc-news-tonight-about-the-importance-of-masks/ on the topic of wearing masks, and there have been some...

July 30, 2020

#COVID19 requires new routines for my #autistic kids
Inspirational Posts6 min read

#COVID19 requires new routines for my #autistic kids

I'm making some progress in the creating a new routine department and I'm pretty proud of myself. Actually, I'm proud of my kids as well because they're slowly adjusting. We're on day 143 or 144 of...

July 27, 2020

No Regrets: Trading One Dream For Another
Inspirational Posts4 min read

No Regrets: Trading One Dream For Another

I wanted to share something that happened recently. There's so much going on that sorta drowns out moments like these. The other day, Elliott was digging through some drawers and he found a very...

April 30, 2020