I laughed when I saw this question because, well, my kids just don’t get along. My oldest one is a natural born leader and the more research on the spectrum that I do, I wonder if she is not aspie. She is also a sensory seeker so she is always up in your face and loud if she is not laying on top of you. Mind you she is 5’5″ and 160 lbs at 12 years old. My second kiddo is dx aspie and she hates being touched. When someone walks by her and she is stressed or on the verge of overstimulation the whoosh of air will set her off and she claims that the person walking by hit her. What am I supposed to do with that when I clearly saw that nothing happened. Then she is yelling at me telling me I don’t trust her or love her. My third kiddo loves to push everyones buttons and is quite skilled at playing this little game. On the rare occasion she gets along with her older sister the first mistake she makes sets her sis off and the fighting ensues. My son and my youngest daughter get along the best. The only thing they fight over is ME! When my son gets angry though watch out. He is one strong little kiddo and he hits kicks punches and screams. We are still on the fence about what his issues are if any and how much of his behavior is learned or him. Most days I cannot wait for bedtime to roll around just so I can decompress.