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How do you explain tattling to a child on the #Autism spectrum?

June 16, 2012

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Everyone since this whole thing with Gavin and *boundary issues* started a few months ago,  Elliott has become an extreme *tattletale*.

We had a talk with Elliott many months ago about not keeping secrets from us.  Gavin had once again begun having *issues* with respecting personal space and inappropriate touching. Elliott was a target for those issues.

When we found out,  we met with Dr.  Pattie and had a long talk with Elliott about not keeping secrets and no one being allowed to touch him etc.

Since then,  Elliott has become very good at *not* keeping secrets. In fact,  he has taken to almost constantly reporting everything that happens.

He has become a *tattletale*.

What started out as simply wanting him to tell us if Gavin did something that made him uncomfortable has turned into a constant stream of tattling. It's actually become a problem and it's one of our own creation.

Do you folks have to deal with any *tattletales *in your house?  How do you explain the difference between good tattling and bad tattling to a child on the #Autism spectrum?

***Thanks for reading***

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