The boys and I are just now getting home from a day of running errands.  The day began with an interview related to state benefits for the boys. It went really well but Imhave some hard thinking I need to do because proceeding down this road will create secondary issues and I just don't know what to do.m The real adventure began when I needed to get my drivers license renewed and all three boys were with me. Elliott and Emmett played in the play area but Gavin had another bladder crisis and had to go back to the car because he was getting really frustrated with himself..         Elliott and Emmett did so well. I'm so proud of them and grateful for their cooperation.. When we were some,…

This time tomorrow, the boys will be knee deep in their first day of school. I'm absolutely praying that things go well for them.  The boys are excited about this return to school but nervous as well.  I'm feeling optimistic that things will be okay with this rather drastic change to their schedules.  Today will be spent getting everything in order.  School clothes will be readied and supplies will be packed. I'm really excited and nervous myself but again, this is a very positive change for all of  us.    

It's been a rough night but everyone is finally asleep. Elliott is the only one not struggling when it comes to sleeping right now.  Since they had a therapy session with their Mom last Tuesday, Emmett hasn't been able to fall asleep without being glued to me. This is a few steps backwards because for the last couple of months, he's been falling asleep in his bed but still climbing into bed with me at some point after I go to bed.  The session was largely a positive thing but I think it stirred some shit up and this is the fallout from that.     Gavin couldn't fall asleep for hours again tonight.  He kept feeling like he had to go potty. He went back and forth to the bathroom…

It's been awhile since I've taken a stand on something like this because normally, I just don't have the energy. This time however, I'll make an exception because this drives me crazy.  I mean this with the utmost love and respect but the Autism community is  fickle and petty.  Of course this doesn't apply to everyone but in general, it's a pretty fair observation.  We spend so much time splitting hairs, arguing over semantics and judging others for their personal thoughts and opinions. This really needs to stop because all it does is drive a wedge between people who should be working together.  Here are a few example of terminology that ruffles people's feathers: With Autism vs Has Autism Autism vs Autistic Obsession vs Hobby I've been called out many…