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#Autism Parenting: Trying to break bad habits is very difficult

I've been talking lately about how Gavin has reverted back to pointing with his middle finger. This is something he used to do when he was younger but we finally moved past it and it's been many years since he's done this. Since this started up again, I've been trying to snag a picture of him doing this so I can show him what it looks like and why it's a problem. I finally was fast enough today and while it's a bit blurry, I think you'll see what it is I'm trying to break him of doing. The only reason I even caught this image today is because he was doing this constantly throughout the day. He doesn't realize he's doing this but the world around him takes notice…

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August 31, 2015

My thoughts

The boys really struggled tonight but I’m feeling optimistic about the week ahead

It's been a rough night but everyone is finally asleep. Elliott is the only one not struggling when it comes to sleeping right now. Since they had a therapy session with their Mom last Tuesday, Emmett hasn't been able to fall asleep without being glued to me. This is a few steps backwards because for the last couple of months, he's been falling asleep in his bed but still climbing into bed with me at some point after I go to bed. The session was largely a positive thing but I think it stirred some shit up and this is the fallout from that. Gavin couldn't fall asleep for hours again tonight. He kept feeling like he had to go potty. He went back and forth to the bathroom…

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August 31, 2015

Maggie / Thoughts and Prayers

Maggie’s got cyst like growths popping up

Maggie is our 10 year old English Staffy/Boxer mix. She's been one of the best decisions we ever made for our family. While Bella was loved and missed when she had to be rehomed, if anything happened to Maggie, it would be devastating.. While brushing Maggie this afternoon, I discovered several lumps under her skin. These lumps are a little bigger than an average sized marble. They are beneathe the skin and seems to be sorta floaty and squishy. Maggie is a very muscular dog and so they weren't as apparent. She's acting fine but these are concerning and I'm going to get her into the vet sometime tomorrow or Tuesday. Maybe they're just swollen lymph nodes but maybe they're not. 😕 She's also got these black skin tag…

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August 30, 2015

Today's Victory

We had a few pretty awesome #Autism victories this weekend

There are quite a few positive things to celebrate this weekend. It's sorta hard to focus on them because the boys are really struggling and that tends to overshadow things. That being said, I wanted to shine the light on a few things that have been positive before continuing on with the less pleasant reality of our lives at the moment. Gavin did something really awesome yesterday. While he was prompted to undertake this task, he did it entirely on his own and without any reminders. Yesterday afternoon, Gavin went and collected up all his dirty laundry from his room and the Mt. Everest sized pile on the landing, going down to the basement. He put them into the washer, ran the washer, moved them to the dryer and then…

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August 30, 2015

My thoughts

I’m so tired of the freaking semantics within the #Autism community

It's been awhile since I've taken a stand on something like this because normally, I just don't have the energy. This time however, I'll make an exception because this drives me crazy. I mean this with the utmost love and respect but the Autism community is fickle and petty. Of course this doesn't apply to everyone but in general, it's a pretty fair observation. We spend so much time splitting hairs, arguing over semantics and judging others for their personal thoughts and opinions. This really needs to stop because all it does is drive a wedge between people who should be working together. Here are a few example of terminology that ruffles people's feathers: With Autism vs Has Autism Autism vs Autistic Obsession vs Hobby I've been called out many…

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August 30, 2015

My thoughts

The numbers are in and I still need your help

I took a peak at the server logs today. I haven't looked at them yet for The Autism Dad blog. Frankly, the only numbers I've been focusing on is the ad revenue, which is what keeps my sites online and helps me support my family. When I checked the server logs, this is what I found. The numbers are broken up between viewed and not viewed traffic. Viewed is when someone actually viewed something from my blog and not viewed are things like bots or crawlers. There have been over 1,000,000 viewable hits to the site for the month of August and over 220,000 page views. There have been just under 50,000 visits for the month with roughly 9,200 unique visitors. 😊 I was worried that making the move from…

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August 29, 2015

Gavin / My thoughts

Gavin’s significant decline is heartbreaking

The boys are sorta having a rougher day. Nothing outwardly horrible but struggle is in the air, especially when it comes to Gavin. This kid is really, really struggling. I don't know what has triggered this period of decline but he's requiring constant supervision and every last ounce of patience I can squeeze out. He's also creating more work for me because he seems incapable of following directions right now and so I'm having to follow along behind him and clean up his messes. This is really annoying but more so, it's sad. Heartbreaking is probably a better choice of words because that's exactly what it feels like. 😦

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August 29, 2015

Anxiety / Emmett John / My thoughts

My son with #Autism will no longer wear shoes

I really worried about this upcoming school year for Emmett. He hasn't tolerated shoes in almost 2 months. He's been wearing flip flops, which sorta seems odd but that's all he will wear. He has to wear shoes at school, flip flops won't cut it. I went out and bought him water shoes yesterday which he did wear for a bit before telling me they feel funny. The sensory issues he's been struggling with for most of his life have kicked into overdrive. At least that's how it seems. I don't know what I'm doing to do for school. Brushing doesn't help either because I've already been trying that. Between the bathroom and the sensory related clothing issues, I'm completely overwhelmed. These not only impact him but everyone else…

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August 29, 2015