"Focus on what you can actually control rather than the things you can't" People ask me pretty often, how am I doing so well with everything I have going on? I would always just say that I do what I have to do.  This afternoon I had a brief conversation with my Dad on the phone. He was basically just checking up on me and expressing some concern about some things that are going on. He asked me why I'm not worried about these things? I hadn't really been able to articulate the answer prior to today because I couldn't quite find the words to express why. I told him that I am worried about these things but I have absolutely no control over most of these situations. They are a result…