This is why I’m so worried about my kids

I'm very much overwhelmed by the boys at this point.  I love them completely and will never give up but I'm absolutely overwhelmed.  Earlier in the week I shared a post about how Dr. Pattie and I are concerned about the boys (Elliott and Emmett) and the emotional challenges they seem to be facing.   No one is labeling them with anything but their behavior is very concerning.      Elliott overreacts to everything and it's usually because he misinterprets what he hears. His perception can be skewed and he reacts based on what he thinks or feels is going on around him.  He gets so bent out of shape over simple words and is frequently screaming I hate being me. It's so heartbreaking. 💔 Emmett is beginning to do…

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I got some totally amazing news today

Wordpress totally chewed this post up and spit it out because it absolutely disappeared. I'll just sum this up and publish it so that I can share the good news and move on with my night. :-) The boys are spending the night at my parents for a send night in a row. This means that I will have another night to myself without the kids. I have no plans because you know, I have no life outside of my kids. I don't really have many real life friends, at least close by and I not dating anyone because I haven't figured that part of my life out just yet. Frankly, I'm not in a big hurry to figure that part of my life out. For now, I'll just take…

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I have some truly awesome news :)

The boys are at my parents house tonight. They were supposed to be camping in the back yard but it's raining. Instead they are having a sleep over inside. Either way this amounts to me getting a night to myself for the first time in awhile. Weather permitting, they will be working with my Dad and younger brother, to rebuild our childhood treehouse. This is a very cool idea but I'm not sure how well it's going to go.     My boys have very limited attention spans and almost zero impulse control at times. lol They are very much excited about this and if they get rained out, I know they will be bummed. At the same time, they are also spending time with their cousin and that will more…

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Sorry folks, I’m not feeling well

I've been an absentee writer as of late and that's because I haven't been feeling well. I'm not sleeping well at night, usually because one or both of the boys isn't sleeping.  Whatever it is that my body is fighting off isn't going to leave easily.  Anyway, this would be a great opportunity for you to browse the archives or visit and read The Autism Daily.   I haven't had a break in awhile and I'm burning out.  I will catch you all up later on tonight, assuming I'm feeling better.     

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How do you know when your child with #Autism is experiencing anxiety?

I think it's pretty safe to say that most parents learn to read their children. Most parents are able to recognize that their child is upset, stressed, worried or scared. In many cases, they can talk to their child and learn more about whatever is going on.  What happens when your child has something like Autism and they either can't speak or struggle with expressive language?    I don't have a tremendous amount of experience with the non-verbal side of the Autism spectrum but my youngest was believed to be non-verbal for the first 4 years of his life and was also thought to be deaf, until an ABR proved otherwise. I remember how difficult it was to try and figure out what he was experiencing. It was heartbreaking because…

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Emmett’s SSI interview went really well

After walking this morning, I had Emmett's SSI interview. It took about 45 minutes and was relatively easy. Now comes the part where they are collecting medical records, of which there are many.  I was told to expect a 3 to 6 month wait to find out whether or not he's been approved.     When we went through this process with Gavin, it ended up only being a couple of months but he was approved without a problem. I'm not sure how I feel about our chances this time but from what all Emmett's doctors and specialists have said, he should absolutely qualify. I look at Emmett and Elliott and I always see how well they are doing. The problem with that is I'm not looking at it objectively.  I…

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