I think I need to stop allowing Gavin to come with me to pick up the boys from school. Unfortunately, his bladder issues have gotten to the point where he really can't ride in a car for more than a couple minutes.  We've been sitting here for 20 minutes and he's almost had three accidents. He's had to run into the school three times already.  The school is a five minute drive from our house and he tried the bathroom before we walked out the door but still also had three accidents on the way.  Right now I'm having him walk up and down the little alley by the school to help him manage this for now. It seems to help but not much.  He wants to be here really…