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Ensuring they have a childhood

Lizze and I had a quiet evening tonight. The boys went to bed without much problem, and we settled in for some binge watching of iZombie on Netflix. We just made it to the second season. As far as the weekend goes, I think we are sticking close to home. The rest of the month is going to be pretty tight, and I need to try and conserve the gas in the car. That doesn't mean we won't make some trips to the park though. Something else I wanted to try and do is set up some play dates for the boys. I don't know if they still call them play dates or not. I'm going to reach out to some of the parents on Facebook and see if they…

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June 17, 2017

Autism Parenting Insight / My thoughts

The exhaustion is real

I'm not sure I go a day without mentioning the word exhaustion, somewhere in this blog. The reason for that is because exhaustion plays an enormous role in my life. One of the reasons I talk about it so much is because it's one of the many things that people don't quite understand when it comes to Autism parenting. The level of exhaustion I feel right now is rather extreme. It always feels like I'm chasing sleep for one reason or another. Sometimes I'm too stressed out to sleep. Other times, I'm dealing with one or more of my kids being unable to sleep. There are even times when I'm simply too tired to fall asleep. I know how that sounds but it's what happens. Most Autism parents probably couldn't…

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June 16, 2017

Family Fun / My thoughts

That’s a BIG if

The boys are having a pretty decent day today. Emmett seems to be feeling better but is as indecisive as ever. Gavin's been chilling out in his room, maybe on a mission or just playing his tablet. Elliott's been really quiet. He wants to do something, but everything he wants to do costs money we don't have at the moment. I plan on taking them to the park, and if Emmett will wear socks, perhaps we can go hiking. That's a big if. lol Even if we don't go, I did thirty minutes on the treadmill, to ensure I got my walk in, so go me. ☺ Assuming Lizze is feeling better, perhaps she will join us. I meant to share this yesterday but was distracted. Lizze has Ehlers Danlos, and…

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June 16, 2017

Autism Parenting Insight / My thoughts

Taking turns sleeping

One of the things that Lizze and I had to accept, very early in in our Autism parenting careers, was lack of sleep. It was probably one of the hardest to deal with as well. Over the years, my wife and I figured out that the only way to ensure that either one of us gets enough sleep, or any sleep for that matter, was to take turns. The idea of taking turns sleeping, is a concept that can be difficult to accept, but essential to practice. Taking turns sleeping is tough because it requires you to change the family dynamic in a way that can also make things more difficult. Rather than being a team, one person is sleeping, while the other is holding down the fort. Lizze and I…

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June 16, 2017

Lizze / My thoughts

Why I’m so proud of my wife

Lizze finished her first round of classes this week and immediately began the second round. Rather than going to class four days a week, she's down to two days a week. This is nice for a couple of reasons. First of all, it's easier on her. These classes are very intensive and both physically and emotionally depleting. They serve a very real purpose but it called intensive outpatient therapy for a reason. The second reason it's nice that she's down to twice a week is that we get to have her home more often. I know these classes are really important for her overall emotional health, but we miss her when she's gone. She typically comes home exhausted and in need of a break, which sorta takes her away from us again.…

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June 16, 2017

Bad News / My thoughts

There’s a good chance I’ll be going offline for awhile and here’s why

Before we move on completely from this week of problems related to our A/C going down, I did forget to mention one thing that may affect this blog for the immediate future. The only bill I wasn't able to get caught up on was our internet bill. It's about a hundred bucks, which hasn't been a problem lately. Unfortunately, we had to choose between fixing the A/C and providing relief for the kids or saving the money and paying the internet bill. We chose the to fix the A/C because it would have the most positive impact on the kids. The point is this, I'm probably going to lose the internet until the beginning of July. This will significantly limit my ability to write. We could easily tether from our…

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June 16, 2017

Akron Children's Hospital / Gavin / My thoughts

Here’s the good news

I wanted to let you all know how Gavin's eye appointment went today. The reason he was going, aside from needing his glasses prescription stronger, is that he's having vision problems that can't be fixed with glasses. Before he went, I had him write down all the problems he's experiencing, so he can make sure to tell the doctor. Check out the list he made. Lizze and my Mom took him today because I was dealing with the A/C repair guy. Gavin shared this list of concerns with the doctor, but she didn't seem concerned. That makes me a little concerned because he losing his vision seems like a pretty big deal. Physically his eyes checked out, although he needs stronger glasses. He does have an appointment at Akron Children's…

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June 16, 2017

Autism Parenting Woes / My thoughts

I’m putting this off until tomorrow

Now that the house is finally cooling off, my whole body is trying to shut down. I'm so fricking exhausted from everything, I just want to call it a night. The boys are feeling a little better, but it will be a day or so before they're back to their usual level of challenge. I'm really looking forward to that. It would be so nice if I could clock out, and shelve my parenting responsibilities for a little while. I'd come back and pick them up after a break. I have a few things to worry about but I think I'll put that off until tomorrow.

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June 15, 2017