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Navigating haircuts with my autistic kids

The question has been asked. How do I navigate haircuts with my 3 autistic kids. I thought since Elliott literally just walked out from getting one, we’d talk about it. In general, haircuts are easy now but it wasn’t always that way. When the boys were little, it was a sensory nightmare. I’d put off haircuts for as long as I could because I knew how difficult it would be for the kids and everyone else involved. There were times that I would have their hair cut really short just so it would take a little longer before we needed to return. The boys struggled with sitting still. The noise from the electric clippers freaked them out and the little hairs that were left behind made them itch and drove…

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March 13, 2024

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We Need to Talk Parent to Parent – Judgment

Let’s chat parent to parent. I know how bad it feels when you’re judged by others. I live it every single day. Let’s talk about it for a minute and I can share how I’ve learned to deal with it.

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March 12, 2024

What #Selfcare Looks Like in My Life

As a father to three incredible children on the autism spectrum, my journey has been filled with unique challenges and profound learning experiences. One of the most valuable lessons I've learned is the critical importance of self-care. It's not just a luxury; it's an absolute necessity for both myself and, by extension, my family. Embracing Self-Care as a Priority Self-care for me goes beyond the occasional break; it's about consistently recognizing and addressing my own physical, emotional, and mental health needs. The demanding nature of parenting, coupled with the specific needs of raising children with autism, means that without a solid self-care routine, burnout is not just a possibility; it's likely. I’ve tangled with burnout too many times over the last 23 year. My Approach to Self-Care For the longest…

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January 25, 2024

Elliott / Emmett John / General Update / Kelly / My thoughts

We are dealing with some new challenges

It’s been a little bit since I opened up about some of the challenges we’re dealing with as an autism family. While life is definitely good, there are some new challenges that have come up recently and I want to talk about them.

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January 15, 2024

ADHD / My thoughts / Resources

Understanding ADHD: A Comprehensive Guide for Parents

Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental disorder that affects both children and adults. As parents, understanding ADHD is crucial for providing the right support and treatment for your child. This blog post aims to shed light on what ADHD is, its causes, impact on kids and adults, common myths surrounding the condition, and available treatment options.

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November 1, 2023

My thoughts / Podcast / Season 6 / The Autism Dad

Do Words Matter? (S6E44)

In this insightful episode of "The Autism Dad" podcast, Rob Gorski and his 15-year-old son, Emmett, delve into the hotly debated topic of Person-First vs. Identity-First Language in the autism community. Offering unique perspectives as a parent of three autistic children and an autistic teen, they explore the emotional and societal implications of the words we choose to describe autism. Tune in to discover how language shapes our understanding and why it matters.

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October 31, 2023

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Baby’s Digestive Bliss: Unveiling the Wonders of Organic Formula

Introduction: Navigating Parenthood's Joyful Challenges Ah, the joys of parenthood! A journey filled with smiles, sleepless nights, diaper adventures, and the sweet sound of baby gurgles and cries. If you're a parent, you're undoubtedly familiar with this rollercoaster ride, and if you're a new parent, welcome to the enchanting world of babyhood. Amidst the precious chaos, one coveted secret can bring serenity to your parenting adventure – the marvels of organic formula. Chapter 1: Organic Formula - The Golden Ticket Imagine this heartwarming scene: your little one, cradled in your arms, those innocent eyes looking up at you in hunger. It's feeding time, and here's your not-so-secret weapon - organic formula. It's like serving your baby a gourmet feast while still in diapers! Chapter 2: The Organic Choice - Why…

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October 25, 2023

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So yeah, that happened

For the last few days, the boys and I were in Tennessee, on vacation with my entire family. We all had a really good time but two days before we were supposed to leave to come home, Emmett broke his arm in a tubing accident. I posted the video below on IG briefly explaining what happened. https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cxi8qBPRe-N/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== The whole event was pretty awful. Emmett was miserable and on overload from everything that was going on. Long story short, he was so brave and handled himself so well. I couldn’t be prouder of him. Emmett’s okay and managed to avoid surgery. I felt it was best to get him home ASAP, so we left a day early. Emmett and I made a few stops on the way home. Elliott and Gavin…

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September 24, 2023