Puberty has struck our household in the form of Gavin. He has been let's say, "sexually aggressive" for the past year or so. He goes out of his way to touch, grab or grope. Male or female it doesn't seem to matter. He struggles with boundaries. He can be very driven to do or get whatever he may want. So now he has these "feelings" and apparently seeks to explore them with no regard for other people. His doctors have said we have to be very careful with him because he already has no boundaries. The latest "incident" was the other day when Lizze picked him up from school. She was talking to his teacher and Gavin went under her (Lizze's) arm and was rubbing his face all over her…

Lizze drove Gavin to school this morning and decided to take Emmett John along for the ride. Once in the car Gavin begins to yell at Lizze because we "wake him up" in the morning for school. He got pretty angry when she said that we weren't going to stop waking him up in the morning. He had himself a meltdown of sorts in the car. Mild in comparison to what he usually does but enough to make Emmett John cry. I went to pick him up from school expecting him to have had a bad day. Turns out when he verbally abuses his mother in the morning it leads to a perfect day at school. Needless to say Gavin and I had a "coming to Jesus" meeting on the…

Lizze and I have been working on a 300 question intake for the autism clinic for Emmett John. We didn't realize just how many things Emmett John wasn't doing until we started answering these question. Actually is was really depressing to realize this. I guess it's becoming more and more real as we go on. We stopped last night on question 171. We are doing to finish it tonight so we can turn it in ASAP. LT

Emmett John was up most of the night screaming again. He doesn't sound like he is in pain. He just wakes up out of a dead sleep screaming. Maybe night terrors? I don't know. I do know that it needs to stop or I will lose what little is left of my mind. My mom is supposed to take the kids for a few hours today. She called yesterday and asked if she could have them today. Looks like Lizze and I get a nap today. LT

I just want to say that I am really putting it out there with this blog post. Today the proverbial "sh@t" hit the fan. Gavin was really struggling today. We were repeating ourselves over and over. He kept doing things to get himself in trouble. We would correct him and it seemed like 5 mins later he was doing it again. Everything came to a head tonight about 6pm. Gavin was sent upstairs to spent some time reading prior to going to sleep. He went up and then wanted to read the same book over and over. We asked him to pick a different book today because we are trying to keep him moving forward with his reading. That was all it took. He lost it. He was screaming as…

As time goes by it becomes more and more apparent that Gavin (although the oldest) is the little brother to Elliott Richard. I was watching them play together (they have to be supervised) and Gavin will do something to Elliott Richard to upset him like the other day he said " Elliott it's nothing personal but I'm just wondering why you are in school yet. Why aren't you in school?". This is a very sensitive issue with Elliott Richard. Right now he is on a waiting list for preschool. He desperately wants to go to school and Gavin knows it. So when he says things like this it causes all sorts of problems. Elliott Richard will cry and we will send Gavin to his room to give everyone a break.…

As I have stated before Gavin has a really rare form of aspergers. He actually floats along the spectrum. No one knows why he does that. We are beginning to hit another cycle of regression. Gavin seems to cycle between high functioning and low functioning. When he hits a regression cycle he becomes unable to do things he was able to before. It lasts for a little while and then he cycles back. As parents it's extremely frustrating because we never really know if he can or cannot do something. We can usually tell by his body language but not always. It figures that it would happen over spring break. The past few days have been pretty tough to bare. He isn't listening and is not always making sense when…

We are waiting to hear from Children's Hospital on when Emmett John will be run through the autism clinic. But as time is going by we are noticing more and more signs. I'm hoping we don't have to wait forever to get into the clinic. I would rather just know for sure so we can get all the early intervention things in place. LT