Gavin is really starting to struggle. He seems to have significantly regressed with no sign of slowing down. The frustrating part is that he could be playing us. He is extremely manipulative. Lizze went to the school to pick up Gavin today and chat with the principle. While they were talking Gavin very inappropriately put his arm around Lizze and grabbed her butt (not letting go) and the laid his face in her breasts. She handle it well. They had the private parts talk again. We have to get this under control if that's even possible. He does this type of hyper sexual thing pretty often and "no" it's not an innocent thing. There is intent behind it. We will have to increase our vigilance in this area. Thank you…

So this morning it rained. I happen to look behind our tv and I noticed water dripping inside the window. The storm windows were closed cause the air was on. I looked again and the windows had actually filled with water. When I open the inside window the water poured out onto the floor. The water was dripping through the wall into the window. I have all the computer business hooked up over there but we caught it before they were damaged. That would have been devastating. I have built up a lot of stuff for the business over the years and I would not have been able to replace for a bit. My dad and brother came over and laddered the side of the house and fixed the clog…

Perspective: From the heart of a special needs father: You are lucky because you never use words like autism, spectrum, bipolar, sensory, anti-psychotic, manic or nonverbal in relation to your children and may not even know what they mean. I am all to familiar with them and wish I wasn't. You are lucky because your kids have friends, even if they could pick them better. Mine don't have any and that breaks my heart. You are lucky because your kids curse and are disrespectful. Mine have never said a word and I would give anything to hear him say Daddy. You are lucky your kids wear clothes even though you can't stand their tastes. Mine can't stand the feel of clothes on their skin. You are lucky you have to…

Autism is changing me. I have become very bitter and angry. I'm angry that I have lost my friends. I'm pissed off at the "family" that forced us to walk away. I'm angry at the "family" that walked away from us because they couldn't hack it. I'm angry that my career is gone. I'm angry that Autism is stealing away my children. I'm angry that Gavin will never live a "normal" life or even live on his own for that matter.I'm angry that he will never have the opportunities so many people take for granted.  I'm angry that we are so alone. I'm angry that I have to sit here and watch  EJ deteriorate and no one seems to take that seriously. I'm angry that the people that should don't…

I know that it seems like all I write about are depressing things. I write about lots of problems. The reason for that is because IT IS OUR TRUTH. These are the things we are living through every day. It's hard to see any positives in the face of so much adversity. I know it's depressing to read all the negatives all the time but try living it. We don't get to walk away. We don't get a break, EVER. We are going to fail if we don't get help. We are going to fall apart if we don't get a break. The point of this blog was to start the conversation by breaking the silence. Sharing the unedited truth is really the only thing I can do. I have…

It's almost 3am and EJ stopped screaming. We brought him downstairs and moved ER back up stairs. I started up a playlist on the TV and he settled down to the music. He acts like he did when he had collic after he was born. I need to find out if it can reappear later on down the road, like now. ER woke up cause of the screaming and snuggled down with me on the couch and is sleeping again. I'm so tired . Thank you for sharing our lives. LT

It's 2am and EJ is still screaming. He's been to the dr and nothing was wrong. He just had a bug. He's acting like it hurts to touch him. Maybe sensory overload? ER is sleeping on the couch. He came down crying. He passed out on the couch next to me. He just needed some comfort I guess. I'm going to go try to help Lizze with EJ again. Thank you for sharing our lives. LT

Am I talking to myself? I sure feels like it today because no one is listening. I have lost track of how many times I've repeated myself today. It's 9pm and none of the kids are sleeping. Lizze and I were going to have our first date night and its been a disaster. EJ is screaming and I can't help Lizze because ER and G will not stay in bed. I don't know what is going on in this house but clearly it has to stop. It's 85 degrees here and Gavin is in sweat pants, a tea shirt (long sleeve) and a hoody. He freaks out cause his window is open. We give him the choice, he either strips down or he has to have the window open or…