Autism, Fibromyalgia and IMPOSSIBLE decisions..

`~Special needs parenting of children with Autism is a very challenging task. However, when one parent has major health issues those challenges exponentially increase. Sometimes these situations require choices to be made that are far from easy~   I've been pretty overwhelmed all week. Well, let's be honest, I'm overwhelmed pretty much ALL the time. Parenting 3 boys with Autism will have that affect. I have so many thoughts in my head that I want to get out but I can't seem to organize them enough to string two of them together coherently.  Friday was a really challenging day. The Lost and Tired family made some progress but also suffered some pretty major setbacks. Today isn't any better as Lizze can't physically get out of bed today. Friday was full of "to-do"s" for me…

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Please vote for “Lost and Tired”….

Hey everyone I signed up my "Lost and Tired" blog on Picket Fence Blogs as an attempt to reach more people. The purpose of this blog is to spread Autism Awareness EVERYDAY by sharing my family's struggle with the world. I truly believe that by sharing our stories (collectively) we can help to make the world more Autism Aware one reader at a time. Please Vote for "Lost and Tired" at Picket Fences Blogs. :) To VOTE for "Lost and Tired" simply click the image below to vote. (Please note that you CAN VOTE each day)   VOTE "Lost and Tired"

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I’m published at “The Thinking Person’s Guide To Autism”

My Broken Heart: The bare-handed man was published today on The Thinking Person's Guide To Autism. This is a great site full of very useful information and stories and I'm honored to share my story there. They do an AMAZING job of spreading Autism Awareness. Thank you TPGA, for seeing fit to help me share my story and spread Autism Awareness. Stop by and give them a read. Friend them on Facebook and follow them on Twitter......

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Facing new challenges ahead

Yesterday Lizze received her cane. It's difficult for Lizze to be physically reduced to needing assistance to walk. I won't speak for her as she will be sharing her own feeling soon enough. For me though, it's heartbreaking to watch her struggle with so much pain. I will be taking Lizze to the Cleveland Clinic to a  rheumatologist for a second opinion. Not really a second opinion more like a re-evaluation. The doctor that have diagnosed her with Fibromyalgia is a top 50 doctor in that field in the US so we're pretty confident with his diagnosis. The concern right now is that she is unresponsive to medications. It could VERY easily be the stress we are experiencing each day or she has the wrong diagnosis. We will be seeking…

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PLEASE lose the word “retard” from your vocabulary

It's ironic that I spend my days trying to help my children NOT lose words from their vocabulary and here I am asking you to lose the word "retard" from yours. In 2011, why do I still hear people using the word "retard" to describe persons with special needs? I personally find it offensive, ignorant and it speaks to the character of the person using it. When the word "retard" is used to describe a person with special needs, it's degrading, dehumanizing and grossly inappropriate. One of the most painful experiences in my life is hearing people refer to my beautiful children as "retards". You wouldn't believe how often it actually happens. It literally takes EVERYTHING in me not respond or even go on the offensive. Those of you with…

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I have a Sprint Epic 4G for sale…So I can fix our van

Here is the link to my ebay auction. The proceeds go to fixing our van (our only means of transportation) and hopefully covering at least one of Emmett's desperately needed speech therapy sessions. Insurance just reduced his appointments to less then 3 times a month. He was going once a week and NEEDS to go twice a week according to his doctors and specialists. Also 10% of this auction will be donated via ebay to the Northeast Ohio Autism Group. Here is the description as seen here at my auction page: The purpose of this auction is to raise money to help in the care of my 3 Autistic kids and chronically ill wife.  I'm "ptfdmedic" the developer of the very popular midNIGHT ROM for the Epic 4G. I created this ROM for the sole…

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Elliott’s not so little friend

It's been a while since we checked in with Mr. Lizard, Elliott's bearded dragon. He was only 4 inches long when we first got him. Now he's about 16 inches long.. Mr. Lizard was a "relatively" successful attempt at teaching Elliott about responsibility. Kids on the spectrum learn by doing. So I try to include him in everyday tasks and encourage him to take responsibility for the things in his life. Elliott does quite well with this type of "Hands on" learning.   Posted using my Sprint Epic 4G on the fly and without the use of proper editing tools.  

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Walking stick…

We are out picking Lizze's new cane up. Elliott was asking what we doing there. I explained we were getting something to help mommy walk. He asked why mommy needed help walking. I said her legs hurt and the cane helps her to keep from falling and makes it easier to walk. He looked at me perplexed and said, how does the cane help her walk? I thought about it a second and said it's like a walking stick Elliott (he knows what that is or so I thought). He looks at me like I'm an idiot an says, daddy, here's the thing. I understand how it helps mommy. I don't understand how the stick walks by itself?  - Lost and Tired Posted using my Epic 4G on the fly…

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