How could someone help YOUR special needs family?

This is a follow up to How you can help a special needs parent. It may to better to read the original prior to reading this one.    I know that my special needs family struggles many times and in many areas. I think that there are many special needs families out there, that are struggling for various reasons as well. In some cases we may need similar types of support. However, what my family may need could be very different from what your family may need. I have written about this before but it was mostly from my perspective. You can read that here, if your interested. I think it's important that others share the kinds of things that would help to improve their particular family's lives. Let me say this, I…

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What is Occupational Therapy? (part 9)

What is Occupational Therapy? Welcome to part 9 of my What is Occupational Therapy, series of posts. This series is meant to help educate my readers as to what Occupational Therapy is all about, more specifically, what Occupational Therapy is for children on the Autism Spectrum or with Sensory Processing Disorder. These videos are filmed by me, while at Occupational Therapy  with my youngest, Emmett. I hope you find these videos beneficial in some way.  My hope is that they can help you better understand what is meant when you hear someone say, "we have OT today". I also think this is valuable for those of you with children that are going to be starting OT soon and would do better if they had some idea of what to expect. Part 9 In this edition,…

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The bathroom at Wal-Mart

So earlier this evening,  Gavin comes over and says that "Grandma took me and Emmett to Wal-Mart".  Seemed pretty benign. However,  what he said next completely sent me into a panic.  Now,  I'll be real honest with you here,  I tend to kind of only half listen to Gavin sometimes.  It's more of a self preservation type thing.  He goes on endlessly at times and it can be quite draining. Anyway,  as I was half listening to Gavin,  I heard something come out of his mouth, that no father ever wants to hear their child say.  Gavin continued rambling and I continue to half listen. Than,  seemingly out of nowhere,  Gavin says,  "I met someone in the Wal-Mart bathroom". My whole world just froze for a few seconds.  It was…

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Is it over yet?

Emmett's on a roll today.  I love him dearly,  but am so grateful it's bedtime.  So far today he has pee'd on the carpet (for seemily no reason),  flushed cardboard toilet paper rolls down the toilet,  clogged the sink by stuffing toilet paper down the drain and ended the day by flushing Elliott jumbo sized pen down the toilet as well. Apparently, the toilet paper rolls were lonely or something.  All of this only accounts for the bathroom and plumbing related issues today.  He assaulted Lizze at least twice,  scratched Elliott's neck and jumped on Gavin's face,  giving him a bloody lip. To say that Lizze and I are exhausted would be an understatement.  Plus,  someone thought it would be a good idea to have no school on Monday.    How…

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Where did Emmett go?

Emmett has decided to turn on the cuteness today.  I think it's to try and smooth things out after the whole,  peeing on the carpet incident. Well,  it's working.  This picture has Emmett hiding. He wanted to play hide and seek with me.  He decided to hide under the blanket and wait for me to find him.  :-) - Lost and Tired Posted by Wordpress for Android via Samsungs Epic Touch 4G (provided to me at no charge by Sprint) without the use of proper editing tools and disadvantages of a bastardized version of auto-correct. So please forgive the spelling ;-) Please Vote for Lost and Tired (just click the link) and help me spread Autism Awareness. Everyone can Vote once a day :)

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Really? REALLY?

So you know when your day is going to go right down the toilet when you child starts to pee on the carpet. Mr.  Emmett John decided that today was the day to just pee on the carpet.  Just pee on the freakin' carpet. Really?   Really,  Emmett?  I mean,  why? The bathroom is right there.  Why pee on the carpet? I'm thinking of just clocking out for the day and going to my happy place. - Lost and Tired Posted by Wordpress for Android via Samsungs Epic Touch 4G (provided to me at no charge by Sprint) without the use of proper editing tools and disadvantages of a bastardized version of auto-correct. So please forgive the spelling ;-) Please Vote for Lost and Tired (just click the link) and help…

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Crack…Crack. Do you hear that?

If you listen carefully, you can hear the ever growing sound of me.....cracking. I'm so far beyond overwhelmed, I don't have another word to describe it. Gavin is driving me up a wall. Right now he is not making many good choices. He's struggling with everything and pushing me over the edge as he does it. In all fairness to Gavin, this isn't his fault. However, he's not listening and he has lost all ability to use common sense.  Gavin has never really been able to exercise common sense. I don't know it he's struggling more in this area or if I'm just so tired that it seems worse. All I know is that Gavin's behavior is changing and becoming more and more infantile. Part of me wishing he was just…

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It finally happened

As the title states, it finally happened.  What exactly happened,  you might ask?  Well,  Emmett is sleeping in his toddler bed,  in Elliott's room. This is a huge accomplishment.  We have been struggling to get Emmett to sleep in his own bed,  for quite so time.  We also wanted to try to move him in with Elliott.  Until now,  it was all just a dream. However,  this evening was different.  We decided to try again and it worked.  Emmett is snuggled under his Lightning McQueen weighted blanket and Elliott is passed out on his bed.  I don't know how love this is going to last tonight but Lizze and I are going to try and get some sleep while we can.  I hope you all have a good night.  I'll…

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