I’ll be there for you

Bella had a appointment at the Vet this morning. Emmett was very anxious to go along with Bella. He wanted to make sure she was okay. He was so freaking adorable, and he did such a good job taking care of his friend Bella. The Vet was so nice, as usual. He explained everything he was doing, so that Emmett understood. He was concerned but super brave when it was time for Bella's vaccine. The Vet said that Bella was the perfect dog and that Emmett was doing an amazing job of caring for her. I explained how Emmett and Bella are perfect for each other. Bella helps Emmett to do things that he wouldn't do otherwise. As his father, I'm so incredibly proud of how well he's doing with…

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#Autism: Being their teacher (episode 1)

As a special needs parent, words cannot express how important of roll I play in my children's life. One of the things I like to do is use every opportunity to be their teacher. As their parents, my wife and I are the most important teachers. As their father I do my very best to lead by example and give them as much real-life, hands-on experience as possible. I have discovered over the many years that I have been a special needs parent, that my children seem to learn better by doing.  Basically, this means that I need to let them do things for themselves as much as possible and under safe and supervised conditions. Don't get me wrong, school is extremely important as well. However, the reality is that my kids need to…

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The good morning meltdown

I can't think of a better a better way to start the day than with one of Gavin's meltdowns.  It's even better after a night of no sleep.  Of course,  this is pure sarcasm and I'm choosing to try and be humorous about this because I can't afford to go the other way.  Gavin freaked out this morning over what he was wearing to school. Today is spring picture day and the boys are allowed to wear a dress shirt to school,  instead of their uniform shirts. In all the years Gavin has been in school,  he has always worn his uniform shirt for pictures.  It's just one of those things he was more comfortable doing.  This morning,  he decided that he was going to wear his Super Mario t-shirt. …

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If you’re a special needs parent, is it selfish to have more kids?

Should a special needs parent have more children?   Over the past two years that I have been publicly blogging, I have been asked the above question on more than a few occasions and in various different ways. I'm personally, always taken aback when someone approaches me with this question. On the surface it seems like an ignorant comment, from someone who just doesn't know what not to say to someone else. While that may be true of some, there are times that people ask the question because they actually want to know. I thought I would explore this question a little bit and present it to all of you for your thoughts and opinions. Please keep this tactful and be sensitive to everyone's feelings. While I don't personally think…

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#Autism: The still of the night

I know it's no secret that life with an Autistic child can be challenging.  I also know that for some,  myself included,  that can be a gross understatement. There are so many days that I feel like I just can't continue.  The struggles are just to great and I don't know if I can find the strength to get up,  even just one more time. Sometimes,the last few hours of the day are the absolute most difficult to survive. I know at least some of you out there understand what I'm talking about. While everything I said is the truth,  at least my truth,  there is one exception. Every night,  when I check on my babies,  the very same ones that were driving me crazy all day long, I see…

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Starting Monday with a freaking fever cycle

As if Monday's weren't traditionally bad enough for the Lost and Tired family.  Today we're starting things off with Emmett beginning a new fever cycle. This may explain his behavior as of late. In some weird and probably inappropriate way it's sorta like PMS for him.  He gets really moody and very easily agitated. About a week later,  he seems to his his fever cycle.  Like I said, weird and inappropriate,  but it's the only way I can think to describe it.  Hopefully,  the rest of the week gets a bit better or at least doesn't get any worse. **Thanks for reading**        -Lost and Tired Please join our Community Autism Support Forum Posted from WordPress for Android so please forgive the typos. Auto-correct and I don't get…

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From my perspective

Yesterday, I posted a picture showing you a moment from Emmett's perspective. Now it's my turn to show you a moment from my perspective.

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Today’s Victory: 03/11/2012

Today's Victory is brought to you by Gavin. Gavin has a lot of challenges in his young life. He struggles with behavioral issues and has, several times, in the past been hospitalized for those behavioral issues. However, today is a day that I want to celebrate because Gavin had an absolutely perfect day. While we never stride or push for perfection, that doesn't mean we will discourage it. In fact, I want to share with everyone, just how proud of him I am. Today, Gavin was a fine example for his younger brothers. This isn'talways the case but today was a very big exception. We had no meltdowns from him today and he was instrumental in many of today's activities. Great job Gavin... :)

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