We met with Dr. Pattie for therapy again today. Our main focus is on trying to help the boys stabilize after everything with their Mother.  To be fair, some of these issues were present before she left but her leaving exacerbated everything as well as create new problems.  I'm so overwhelmed by the boys anymore and stabilizing them often feels like a pipe dream. I'm not angry with the boys or anything like that because in my opinion, they're victims of a trauma that they're ill equipped to cope with. It's not their fault but that doesn't make dealing with the fallout any easier.     They each have their own unique struggles but they also have some in common as well. All three of the boys are having bathroom issues…