I feel so horrible because Emmett got hurt on our walk yesterday

I talked yesterday about how Emmett was really struggling yesterday, after returning from his Mom's house.  Quite honestly, so was I because my nights have been filled with bad dreams and so even when I'm presented with the opportunity to sleep, I can't. Anyway, one of the best ways to help my kids work through emotional or sensory overload, is physical activity.  It helps to ground them in a sensory manner, leading to an eventual reprieve in anxiety. I felt my best move would be to get them outside and moving around.  It was beautiful out and I figured I take them somewhere and we could walk around and explore. We ended up making our way to a path that the boys have never actually completed before and this time…

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#Autism and Art: Gavin’s Artwork Series 1 of 5

It's been awhile since I've had any artwork to share and I was thrilled when Gavin asked me to share the sketches he did in his sketchbook.  There's 50 in total but I'm breaking them up into groups of 10 to make them a bit more manageable. These aren't organized in any special way, other than the order they were photographed in. Gavin loves to draw and what I find truly amazing is how well he does, especially considering how badly his hands shake. Please feel free to leave your positive and encouraging comments below.  I'll make sure Gavin sees them.  ☺

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Check out our after school adventure

The weather was beautiful today.  The sun was out and the temperature was in the high 50's, which is still chilly but the sun makes it feel warmer. I took a nap in the morning because of the lack of sleep the night before.  After that I got some work done and did some partnership building.  I even squeezed in some desperately needed server maintenance. Gavin and I decided it would be a great day for a walk, assuming we could get his brothers to cooperate. We picked up the boys and while they didn't want to walk the track, they did want to go on a hike.  That's exactly what we did.  We went on a 36-minute long hike through the woods at Monument Park.  We took some paths…

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Today was pretty quiet until it filled with the sounds of children melting down

Today was pretty quiet until it wasn't.  Gavin talked my ear off for most of the morning and early afternoon (can you say manic) but it's just one of those things. I'm able to tune 90% of it out and I know that sounds terrible but a Dad's got to preserve a little sanity here and there. Gavin and I picked the boys up from school and headed to therapy. Emmett was bouncing off the walls and therapy was mostly crashing and bashing because that's what he needed.  Check out the pictures above. Gavin and Emmett both did great during their respective therapies.  Elliott did awesome as well because he was super patient and waited for his brothers to finish their therapies. After therapy is when things went bad. Emmett…

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#Autism Parenting: I always try to foster my kids willingness to be helpful

There are times when my kids are feeling very helpful and times that they want nothing to do with helping. I always try to encourage them when they're in the mood to be helpful. I feel as though it's an opportunity to help them learn something new and it helps to build skills that will help them become more independent...  ☺ I know that most of the time when I have little helpers, the job ends up taking more time but that time is well worth it, at least in my book.

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AWESOME NEWS: I feel like a pretty awesome Dad tonight

It's not very often that I can say this but today proved to be pretty awesome.  The boys and I had an amazing time this afternoon with my Mom.. ☺ We spent the morning at home and taking care of a couple errands that needed to be done.  The boys did great and I didn't have anything more than a few hiccups to deal with along the way. Emmett was running a fever again but was otherwise asymptomatic, so we decided to take advantage of the beautiful weather and spend some time together outside exploring.. Rather than just going down the street to the local park, we picked up my Mom and headed to Quail Hallow State Park in Hartville, Ohio.  You can check out all the pictures above and…

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#Autism Parenting: Fighting holiday fallout with family time

The days after a holiday can be tough for Autism family.  My family is not an exception to that rule.  In fact, I feel as though we are the poster child for after holiday fallout. Anyway, all of the boys were having a day filled with post-Easter fallout and while I was personally doing much better today, I couldn't allow things to pull me back under the weight of the previous days stress. The boys really enjoyed the hike from Saturday and it was something they wanted to do again. I called my Mom to see if she'd like to join us and before I knew it, we were on our way to the park and beginning yet another hike. Unfortunately, the weather was far less pleasant this time around…

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