He now appears to be in a mini-crisis

We're currently working through a mini-crisis of sorts. Mr. Elliott has been awake for the better part of three days. He's taken a few short (as in one or two hours at a time) naps, but nothing significant.  This is on Melatonin and his nightly Benadryl for allergies.  There are likely a couple of pieces to this problem, but I'm not sure what the root cause is. One issue is possibly related to being manic. We aren't really putting much into that at this point, but as I've said before, it's on our radar.  The second part is very likely to be anxiety related. He's been experiencing a significant amount of anxiety lately, and that's just part of his severe anxiety disorder. He's anxious for seemingly no reason, and it…

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Continuing to lose devastating amounts of sleep

It's been another horrible night. Elliott has yet to fall asleep, and that means I didn't get any sleep either. About half way through the night, Emmett joined us in the land of people who should be sleeping, but aren't.  Lizze has class in about an hour, and I'm barely able to even focus my eyes on the tablet I'm using to write this.  I'm concerned that Elliott's having so many sleepless night, even while taking Melatonin.  God help me today, I'm going to need all the help I can get. Frankly, a nap wouldn't hurt either. 

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More bloodcurdling screams and massive meltdowns after midnight  

I didn't get a chance to write much today, and there's a good reason for that. I was up all night with both Elliott and Emmett. I don't know why Elliott was up but it's concerning when we've possibly got Bipolar disorder on the radar.  As for Emmett, he was nauseous and running a fever. He was set up on the couch, with a puke bucket and a very low threshold for anything.  Being up all night would have been bad enough, but he wasn't just awake. Emmett was having massive meltdowns into the wee hours of the morning. These weren't mini-meltdowns either. It was a super surprised that someone didn't call the police kind of meltdowns.  This, of course, didn't help Elliott sleep, but he was already not sleeping…

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Patience isn’t easy but patience is key 

That didn't work out so well. Turns out, Elliott didn't want to go for the walk anymore. He's in a mood this morning. Elliott's disposition is a mix of Autism, Anxiety, ADHD, depression, and some good old fashioned preteen angst.  While overall, his actions are heavily influenced by the many challenges he faces, there's still some of what the world refers to as normal thrown into the mix.  It's hard to know for sure what's what, but I try to be cognizant of that when dealing with unpleasant behaviors.  Anyway, I'm disappointed that we weren't able to go, but I'll get some exercise in at home, and maybe we can try again later today. His moods tend to cycle rather quickly..  Patience isn't easy but patience is key. 

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Hopefully this works out because I’m excited

I'm really excited because I think Elliott and I are going to go walk the track before Lizze leaves for class. Elliott's always asking to go walk the track, but no one else ever wants to.  This morning I figured he and I could go before Lizze leave at noon.  I think it will do Elliott some good to have some one on one time. Elliott is emotionally struggling and it will be nice to have a chance to talk, without his brothers in earshot.  Hopefully this works out because as I said, I'm excited.. ☺ 

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Elliott’s dealing with frequent hesdaches

Poor Elliott is fighting off another headache. He's been getting these more and more frequently. Lizze has a long sorted history with headaches/migraines, so it's not too surprising that Elliott is as well.  The difference is that nothing helps Lizze's migraines because they are believed to neurovascular in nature.  Elliott seems to respond well to Advil.  I'm not sure what's bringing these things on for him, but not drinking enough water is pretty high on the list of possible causes. A good thing to come out of this is that Elliott's becoming more aware of what not drinking enough water can do, and he's drinking water more regularly.  In what could be an unrelated note, Elliott's also running a low-grade fever as well. Perhaps the two are connected?  Either way,…

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I plan for the worst and hope for the best 

Shortly before bed, Emmett began not feeling well. His tummy was upset, and he felt like he was going to puke. At the same time Elliott, who had been feeling the same for the second half of the day, was slowly beginning to feel better.  Emmett's currently sleeping right now, but I fully expect him to struggle throughout the night.  I'm not taking a negative approach to this, despite how my above statement sounds. I simply prefer to deal with reality, and the reality is that when Emmett doesn't feel well, he wants to be glued to me at night.  I have learned to plan for the worst-case scenario while hoping for the best. It's served us well over the years and limits life's ability to catch us off guard.…

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Please keep Elliott in your thoughts 

Elliott isn't feeling good. He's got a headache, stomachache, and is hugging a puke bucket. This began a few hours ago but has gotten worse in the last thirty minutes.  I don't know if he's actually sick or not.  Everything he's complaining about is also signs of dehydration as well. We have a really hard time getting Elliott to drink enough water. When one doesn't drink enough water, one can get headaches, nausea, and constipation.  We have been working with both him and Emmett, in an effort to get them consuming more water. It's proven to be difficult on a good day. I'll talk about what we are doing in a different post.  The last thing I want is for him to be sick. I'm hoping that sipping water will…

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