My son with #Autism needs everything to match. Does yours? 

I woke up to the boys fighting this morning. Emmett was freaking out because he needs everything in his life to match and when it doesn't, he panics and melts down.  This mornings disaster was caused because Elliott had been playing the Xbox for about an hour, while Emmett had only played for about half that amount of time. That was simply the way it worked out.  Emmett began to get really upset because the times didn't match. He wanted to play the exact number of minutes needed to match Elliott's time but that wasn't possible at the time. This led to a pretty shitty start to the day a massive meltdown.   All of Emmett's life, he's had to have things match. Christmas presents, pizza slices, how much drink…

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How our child with#Autism and Sensory Processing Disorder reacts to shoes and socks (Audio) 

I'm sharing this with my readers for one singular purpose. I want to help raise awareness for kids/people with invisible challenges, such as sensory processing disorder, as well as what their parents/caregivers experience.  I've spoken countless times about how we struggle when it comes to getting Emmett dressed and ready for school. I've provided direct insight, so you can experience for yourself what this is like for us as parents.   Before you listen to this recording, please keep in mind that this is in no way an attempt to keep from having to go to school. One of the reasons Emmett gets so frustrated is because he desperately wants to be at school but can't tolerate the clothes required for him to leave the house sometimes, especially in the…

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Emmett had a rough time falling asleep 

Emmett had a tough time falling asleep last night. He came downstairs and sat with us for a little bit before Lizze took him back to bed.  We weren't sure if he was going to fall asleep in his own bed or move to ours at some point.   When Lizze and I went to bed, we found him fast asleep in his own bed. Awesome sauce...... ☺  I wouldn't be surprised if we we learn that he stayed in his bed because our room was too dark but who cares. This is major progress and what makes this so awesome is that he was able to work through this..  Great job Mr. Emmett..... ☺ 💙 

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I don’t know what we’re going to do

We had a really difficult morning because Emmett would not tolerate shoes or socks once again.  I went last night and tried to find new socks that he might be more comfortable with but he wouldn't even try them on. This morning however, he was finally able to put on one of the pairs of new socks but would not tolerate any type of shoe over top of them.  After about 90 minutes of exhaustive effort, we finally got him to wear his slippers. He wasn't happy about it but it happened.   The battle to reach that point was horrible. The screaming was overwhelming for us but the whole thing was beyond overwhelming for Emmett.  This thing is heartbreaking and I don't know what else to do.  Nothing works. …

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Today’s Victory: Guess who slept in their own bed last night? 

After the little hiccup we had over the weekend, Emmett fell asleep in his own bed again and that's not only awesome but a big relief.  I was worried that he was going to start sliding backwards but he's back on the wagon and I couldn't be prouder. I'm hoping this trend continues and we can file this particular challenge under overcome...... ☺ 

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Well shit, I just had to open my big mouth

Last night was a long night and I only have myself to blame.  I recently shared how Emmett was falling asleep in his own bed and we thought we'd finally worked through our bedtime troubles. Unfortunately, it seems that in my excitement over our perceived victory, I jinxed us.  I spent the night on the couch once again because Emmett wasn't able to sleep. Lizze was still sick and so Emmett and I ended up camping out in the living room.  It was a long night but I did get to sleep today, courtesy of my awesome wife.   Perhaps next time I'll not claim a victory so early...  ☺ 

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