Ask your questions about being investigated by Child Protective Services

I wanted to open up the floor, create a dialog and encourage you all to ask any questions you may have about our being investigated by Child Protective Services.  We did nothing wrong and therefore have nothing to hide. The reality is that we are from the only ones this has happened to and if anything that we've experienced can help you on your journey, I want to help.  Please feel free to ask your questions, as they relate to being investigated by Child Protective Services. This site is managed almost exclusively via WordPress for Android. Please forgive any typos as autocorrect HATES me. ;-) Follow @Lost_and_Tired Visit the My Autism Help Forums To reach me via email, please Contact Me

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Testing our resolve

Today we will be implementing a more aggressive approach to safety in our house. We had become a bit lax because things have been going so well.  However, that's changed and we are pushing forward with reinforcing the rule of no physical contact and only playing within earshot or eyesight. This is going to be challenging on just about every level but it's something that has once again become necessary, to ensure everyone's safety and well being. Gavin will be cooperative, at least on the surface.  The other boys are going to dislike this, a lot. Unfortunately, this is just something that everyone is going to have to accept.  We are doing what we've been advised to do and what's best for everyone, even if it's a bit unpleasant. I…

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Insane in the membrane

The boys have been up since 5am and I'm exhausted.  I have no idea where their insane amount of energy comes from but I want to meet with their dealer and work out a deal.  I've had a long night and only a few winks of sleep.  Going into today,  I'm planning on having a very positive experience with my friend Wednesday.  Although I'll be honest, having so much to do on so little sleep, I'm going just a little bit insane.  Insane in the membrane.  This site is managed almost exclusively via WordPress for Android. Please forgive any typos as autocorrect HATES me. ;-) Follow @Lost_and_Tired Visit the My Autism Help Forums To reach me via email, please Contact Me

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Does Emmett like smores?

I decided to try and surprise the boys by getting the necessary items to make smores. The boys have been asking about this for awhile now and I was finally able to run out and grab what we needed that last time I was at the grocery store.  Emmett's the one that surprised me the most.  I knew that Gavin and Elliott would tear into their smores without thinking twice about how messy they would get.  Emmett on the other hand,  is much more ridged when it comes to getting dirty. Having said that, I think it's pretty clear from the picture below that Emmett stepped outside of his comfort zone for the gooey goodness that is the smores. This site is managed almost exclusively via WordPress for Android. Please forgive…

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#Autism, RAD and Puberty: Managing the issues

We met with Dr. Patti this evening about the whole boundaries issue thing with Gavin. Gavin's at that age where things are changing and hormones are raging. Factor in his lack of impulse control and sprinkle in a few pinches of RAD, you have a recipe for problems. The mission tonight was to come up with a clear set of boundaries, guidelines and consequences. The conversation was very uncomfortable and included words like erections and masterbation. This was very awkward but Dr. Patti was a huge help and we survived. I don't know how much, if anything, Gavin retained but he handled himself well and didn't get angry or stress out. We had to reiterate the house rules and establish a few new ones. Here's the long and short of…

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Hello boundary issues, we meet again

I mentioned earlier that Lizze was having a really bad pain day.  Early this morning, the boys were doing pretty well.  Unfortunately, things have changed since my last post, at least as far as Gavin's concerned. Gavin was being inappropriate with his brothers and broke a major, major rule.  This rule revolves around Gavin making physical contact, outside of handshakes and high fives.  This rule was put in place by Dr. Patti and so it's a necessary evil. It's designed to protect the boys and anyone else that Gavin may come in contact with.  As Gavin has issues with boundary issues and impulse control challenges, this rule must be followed.  As a reader, you may think this is mean or cruel but I assure you, I hate it as well…

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Please keep Lizze in your thoughts and prayers today

Today has only just begun and the Lost and Tired train has already derailed. Lizze is in a great deal of pain this morning so shes back in bed. I believe it's mostly her migraine that has her down at the moment. She's basically hiding from the light at this point because she's very sensitive to daylight......and no, she's not a vampire. Lizze was supposed to have therapy this morning but she's so bad that she canceled. She lives for these appointments and for her to cancel, means that she's in really bad shape. She's taken her meds and is laying down. Hopefully in a few hours, she'll at least be able to move around again. If you could all keep her in your thoughts and prayers today, I would…

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Emmett’s Amazing Artwork: The Turkey

This evening Emmett was hard at work on a masterpiece. He sat down on the couch and began feverishly drawing.  He was so excited about creating a turkey out of his hand.  Considering that he's only 4 years old, this is pretty good.  I'm so proud of him and I can't wait to see what he does next. This site is managed via WordPress for Android, courtesy of the @SamsungMobileUS Galaxy Note 2 by @Tmobile. Please forgive any typos as autocorrect HATES me. ;-) Check out my #Autism Awareness Store to find really cool and unique #Autism Awareness Clothing and Accessories, designed by me. ;-) For more ways to help the Lost and Tired family, please visit Help the Lost and Tired Family.

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