This is a question that has popped up a few times in my short blogging career.  To be completely honest, this is a very relative question, that perhaps requires us to define the term success in a new way. Based on your definition of success, can your child with Autism ever be successful? I've had a few discussions in the past because another Autism parent believed that his child on the spectrum would never be successful. This attitude was based on what I felt was a warped perception of what success was. Everyone's got the right to their own opinion but I have to wonder if situations like this, set up kids to fail.... This person defined success as achieving power, power and fame. Since his child would likely achieve…

This morning was another eye opener for Lizze and I both.  We realized just how far gone Gavin is and it's heartbreaking. While he was getting ready for school this morning, he needed clean school pants.  Lizze told him that his pants were on the back of the couch, next to Elliott's.  Gavin went to look for his pants and couldn't figure out which ones were his.  Now Gavin's got about 2 feet on Elliott and so their pants are clearly different. Still, he couldn't determine which were his.  We had to walk him through figuring out the difference.  This is really concerning for us and something that makes us realize just how bad he's getting.  My heart broke this morning. This site is managed almost exclusively from my Galaxy…

I love my boys so much.  Despite all the challenge and frustration I may experience during the day, it's moments like these that make it all worth it.  If I'm being totally honest with you, much of the time I feel like a failure as a parent.  With that said, at the end of the day, when I see my boys sleeping soundly and safely, I realize that things may not be so bad afterall. They have a roof over their heads, food in their belly, clothes on there backs and parents that love them more than anything in the world.   :-) On a side note, Gavin sleeps with his eyes open and I was afraid the flash would wake him up. That's why his picture isn't below. This site…

Beginning Monday morning, I will reach out to NYU and speak with them about Gavin.  The Cleveland Clinic has already referred us and transfered all the records. To be completely honest, while this trip is a necessity, I have no idea how we are going to pull this off.  The trip to John's Hopkins was going to be tough and so will making the trip New York, especially going into the winter weather.  I don't know if making the trip will even make a difference.  I hope that speaking with this new doctor at NYU, will give us a better understanding of the pros and cons of trying to take Gavin across several state lines, by means of automobile.  There are risks involved and the end will have to justify…

Do you ever get frustrated with your kids? I sure as hell do.  Getting frustrated is part of parenting and something that's just part of the special needs parenting package, at least for me.  Tonight the boys hung out with Lizze's parents.  When I went out to greet them as they pulled up, Gavin immediately began telling me that he had a stomachache, "because I drank too much liquid".  What the hell does that mean? The only thing he's allowed to drink, per doctors orders, is water.  He's allowed 2.5 liters of water per day.  It's been this way for over a year now. When he got into the house, he was talking about puking and was being what appeared to be, dramatic. I had to get him to calm…

Gavin's been very focused on drawing as of late and he's getting pretty darn good.  His latest Pokemon drawing,  Charmander, was drawn freehand and he's quite proud.  :-) This site is managed almost exclusively from my Galaxy S4. Please forgive any typos as autocorrect HATES me. ;-) Follow @Lost_and_Tired "Like" me on Facebook Visit the My Autism Help Forums To reach me via email, please Contact Me   Setup of an account with Bluehost and I get paid. If your looking for a host for your website or blog. Click the image below and check out Bluehost. It's what I use.