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My current back to school plan is far from perfect but at least it’s safe

I'm trying to keep things moving forward and I feel like I'm doing a halfway decent job. That's not easy for me to say that either. I tend to focus on my many failings and gloss over my parenting wins. I do feel pretty accomplished to have a basic strategy for the upcoming school year. We haven't left the house in a few days. It's been insanely hot and COVID is worsening in Ohio. There's also a renewal of the general safety concerns where we live. There have been shootings recently and while that's not unheard of its been getting pretty bad. I've mentioned before that gunshots are an almost daily occurance where I live. I don't always know what happened but we hear them all the time. The gunshots…

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July 29, 2020

COVID19 / Media / My thoughts / TV Appearances

I spoke on ABC News tonight about the importance of masks

Last night, I was featured in an ABC News segment about the importance of wearing masks during the COVID-19 crisis. There is debate about the validity of people claiming medical exemptions in regards to wearing masks. For my part, I spoke to the challenges facing kiddos with neuro developmental disorders like autism and wearing masks during COVID-19. We discussed how my kids were doing with masks and how I helped them adjust to wearing them. I'm towards towards the end of the segment. I don't mince words when it comes to this because there's no excuse not to wear a mask. If someone has a condition that makes wearing a mask unsafe, and those conditions are few, they probably should be sheltering at home and avoid public spaces during a…

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July 29, 2020

My thoughts / School

Finalizing plans for this school year

I just got off the horn with the boys new school and they begin on August 17. We're still waiting on something for Emmett but they're finishing him up now. For the record, I will not be sending the kids to a brick and mortar school this year, as there is no universe in which that would be safe under the current circumstances. Lizze and I are in full agreement on this. The boys will be doing distance learning which means that it will be conducted online, with the entire curriculum provided. They receive laptops and do school for about 5.5 hours a day, 5 days a week. It's going to be an interesting transition but it is what it is. Their safety and wellbeing have to come first. What…

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July 28, 2020

11 Top Tips For Raising Kids As A Single Parent

If you're a single parent, taking care of the kids can be a daunting task. Having to switch roles as a mother and a father at the same time means that your responsibilities are almost unlimited. The enabling environment you provide for your kids will play a big role in their development. So, here are 11 tips to help you out with the kids as a single parent. Seek support when necessary Image Credit Single-parenting can bring about feelings of loneliness. Though you may try to stay strong, there are moments when feelings of isolation will weigh you down as a single parent. Instead of trying to do it all by yourself, consider seeking external child support from your neighborhood. Talk to family and other parents in your zone, and…

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July 27, 2020

My thoughts

Last night didn’t go so well

Our first night with an adjusted bedtime did not go so well. Last night was the first night where I moved everyone to a bedtime of 10pm. I mentioned in the previous post that one of my goals was to improve everyones sleep schedules. Last night everyone was shutdown by 10pm. There was cooperation and a willingness to make the change but unfortunately, it didn't go smoothly. Emmett didn't fall asleep until well after midnight and Elliott never fell asleep. I still need to check Gavin's fitbit to see when he fell asleep but he probably did okay. As I said before, this is a work in progress. I am going to encourage Elliott to take a nap but I don't know if that will work and frankly, maybe he's…

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July 27, 2020

Inspirational Posts / My thoughts

#COVID19 requires new routines for my #autistic kids

I'm making some progress in the creating a new routine department and I'm pretty proud of myself. Actually, I'm proud of my kids as well because they're slowly adjusting. We're on day 143 or 144 of COVID19 lockdown and yes, it's a lockdown. We have been to the park a handful of times and spend time in our yard when it's safe, we are otherwise locked down. I'm following CDC guidelines for people at high risk. It's not a difficult concept folks. That's directed at the trolls who complain about my use of the word lockdown. One of my biggest challenges since schools shutdown has been establishing a routine. That's not an easy thing to do with autistic kiddos. The kids and I were still getting our footing after the…

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July 26, 2020

My thoughts

I got my kids to watch something new

The boys and I are taking on a new series today. I watched The Umbrella Academy on Netflix last year and with season 2 arriving next Friday, I made my kids turn off YouTube and focus their eyes on something new. They weren't happy about it at first but they're hooked now. If you've not seen The Umbrella Academy, check it out. It's pretty awesome.

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July 26, 2020

My thoughts

Everything surrounding #COVID19 is getting to us

Today has been one of those days where it's crystal clear that everything surrounding COVID-19 is getting to us. Everyone is grouchy and quick to jump down the others throat. The kids are fighting and when they're not, they're hiding in their phones or on the Xbox. Emotionally, I feel like I'm in a decent place but I'm exhausted. The last few nights I haven't been sleeping well because I started working out in the mornings and I'm still in the soreness phase. I hurt but it's a good hurt in my book. Anyway, I'm dropping the parenting ball right now because I'm not staying on top of everything. I'd like to have fun things planned out and I just don't. We're obviously limited in what we can do but…

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July 25, 2020