Helping A Relative With An Onset Medical Issue

This is a contributed post and therefore may not represent the views and opinions of this blog or its creator. :-) Pexels There are many reasons as to why you might worry for a relative. However, when they start showing signs of illness or medical difficulty, that worry can shoot through the roof. When this happens, the best thing you can do is to care for them, show them love and be present. But this period of time is hard for everyone involved, so this isn’t where the story ends. If this is happening to you and your family, we are deeply sorry and wish you get through this period unscathed. We also hope that taking into account the following advice can push you forward in the right direction, giving…

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The struggles we face while raising a profoundly cognitively impaired adult son

I spoke recently about some of the struggles we face while raising a profoundly cognitively impaired adult son. This morning presented me with yet another issue that was directly related to how Gavin handles things. When we were at his gastro earlier this week, there were a few issues that came up as a result of Gavin's limited capacity and poor memory. None of these things are his fault and while they would still be frustrating at times, it's his reaction to being questioned that is really frustrating. You can read the recent post about this appointment and the initial frustrations by clicking here. It wasn't until this morning that the other complications presented themselves. Gavin's doctor had asked about how he was doing with his Ensures. Gavin drinks one…

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It looks like it will be a very long night

Just a quick update. I mentioned in the last post that Emmett woke up and wasn't able to go back to sleep because of his sore throat. It turns out that Emmett is still unable to go back to sleep and I'm now sitting in a chair, while he's trying to fall asleep on the couch. If he falls asleep, I will hopefully be able to eventually move him to his bed. I'm so fricking tired and I need sleep.

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Both kids are getting sick but Elliott is getting worse

Both boys are going to be home again today. They are both sick and Elliott is becoming concerning because of his fever, congestion and cough. He's probably just dealing with a cold but he and Emmett both will be seen by their pediatrician today. Emmett was directly exposed to Whooping Cough but went on antibiotics last weekend. I suspect Elliott will be put on antibiotics as a precaution as well. Anyway, it's better to be safe than sorry and we'll let his doctor decide what she thinks is best. Aside from that, there's not really a great deal going on today. I'd very much like to see everyone sleep in because I could really use the extra sleep. As I'm writing this, Emmett is awake and unable to go back…

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I’m trying so hard not to be swallowed up by the negative

Our week continues to unravel and all I can say is thank God it's almost Friday. It was a rough night, filled with restless sleep. I'm not sure what was going on. Actually, that's not true. I do know what's going on and it has to do with the stuff I talked about eariler this week. I'm going through a difficult time right now and it's keeping me up at night. Anyway, both boys are home from school sick today. They have appointments with their pediatrician tomorrow. They are both dealing with what seems like a cold. It's a runny nose, sore throat, fever, mild cough and congestion kinda thing. I'm not too worried about this because we'll see the doctor tomorrow and if she's concerned, we can deal with…

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Sometimes #Autism can be incredibly frustrating

It's been a very frustrating day. We had to totally adjust our plans because Elliott was home sick but we try very hard to roll with the punches. Autism and/or Special Needs parents have to be able to adapt because they living in a ery fluid environment. I was able to get Gavin to his appointment at Akron Children's Hospital but that ended up being frustrating as well. His gasteo is really nice and she's incredibly patient. ☺ I've spoken about this many times over the years but it bears repeating once again. Gavin is not a reliable source of information about anything, especially when it comes to his health. He struggles with memory issues and even basic comprehension. None of this is his fault but he very much muddies…

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