Lizze and I are both exhausted and losing hope. We need to deal with the fact that Gavin is a 10 year old pubescent toddler. He responds to emotional and social situation with the maturity of a 2 year old. How do we even begin to cope with that. It is easy to verbally recognise this but it's another thing in practice. He is very strong and only getting stronger. If he gets mad or frustrated, much like Emmett John, he just freaks out and has a fit. He doesn't have the capacity of a 10 year to handle situations like sharing toys, or expressing his frustration in a constructive manner. He just melts down. I met with Dr. Patti tonight and there is no easy answer. Do we use…