I’m only human

If you're a regular reader of my blog then you already know that I don't mince words. I mean what I say and say what I mean. I have been a special needs parent for over a decade and something that I learned along the way is that despite my very best efforts, at the end of the day I'm only human. I get frustrated, overwhelmed and on occasion say and do the wrong thing. There have been quite a few times in my life as a special needs parent that I have said something in the heat of the moment that I later wanted to kick myself for. But...as I said, I'm only human. One of the things that happens quite often to special needs parents is that the demand on…

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Bloodwork Wednesday

Today has been a busy day and I'm only half way done. This has been an a-typical day because 2 of our 3 boys needed bloodwork today.  Elliott had a bunch of blood drawn this morning to test for the genetic immunological disorder Gavin was recently diagnosed with......  Also extensive allergy testing will be done as well. This sucked because I had to hold him down.  This took me back to his days in the NICU.  I think it was also the smell of the hand sanitizer.  Ever since he was in the NICU I have associated that very specific smell with the weeks we spent there.  Gavin is having is regular,  weekly,  medication related blood draw as well. He also is having follow up on some worrisome labs dealing…

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Elliott officially has asthma

Elliott had is very first visit to the immunologist today.  One other reasons he was referred there was of the unusual amount of respiratory infections he gets each winter.  There was concern that asthma was involved. So today we had the pulmonary testing done.  Turns out Elliott has asthma and that is the likely explanation for the respiratory infections.  He now has 2 inhalers and a slew of new instructions. The other,  much less pleasant part was the actual allergy testing.  We opted to test via bloodwork instead of the scratch test.  He needed bloodwork anyway,  so this was less traumatic....at least in theory. Elliott was an emotional wreck the whole time we were there and all morning leading up to the appointment. He has really been struggling with change…

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Back to school was just a dream

Not that I don't love being around my kids,  cause I do,  but it's been a very looooonnnggggg summer.  Most of our energy is spent on Emmett because he is into absolutely everything.  He can be very aggressive and doesn't always play well with his brothers. School began last Friday and Emmett loves it there and we are actually happy with the classroom and teacher as well.  Everything seemed to be going better then expected until 5 letters crushed our dreams of a daily 2 hour break......PFAPA PFAPA is the likely cause of Emmett's chronic fevers.  Emmett is currently just beginning a flare up.  However,  he now has the other symptoms of cold soars literally covering him mouth and tongue....and....they are contagious.  This will continue to keep him out of…

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Emmett is understandably miserable

So I was able to get a picture of just one of the many cold soars Emmett is dealing with right now.  This is actually a smaller one.  I got the pictures so we could gauge the progress and recovery.  We got some medicine tonight to numb up his mouth for a bit. The problem is that it's like mouth wash.  How many 3 year old and rinse,  swish and spit?  They said it's lidocaine,  benadryl and antacid so he can swallow some.  This doesn't seem very well thought out. We just used cuetip to apply it instead. FYI,  for a child with pretty significant sensory issues, it appears that having his mouth number is worse then the pain. I hadn't thought about that. - Lost and Tired Posted by…

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Gavin’s PT evaluation results

Gavin was evaluated this afternoon for PT.  Gavin's feet are pretty bad but over all it could be alot worse. He still can't cross his midline and that's a problem.  However,  the most concern revolves around his feet and ankles.  His ankle is very loose and his arches are collapsing.  He actually walks on the the inside of his arch,  if you can picture that.  The bumps that I brought up last week are most likely bones shifting due to the way he walks and his collapsing arches.  The one thing that really got me was when she was showing me how loose Gavin's ankles are.  There is so much flexibility that when she pulled his foot you could actually see the skin stretching.  It was kinda creepy because it…

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Emmett, PFAPA and immunology 8/30/2011

We got a call from the immunologist this afternoon.  She is calling in something for Emmett's mouth.  She also wanted to make sure we understood that the mouth soars are very contagious.  Apparently,  that's the only part of PFAPA that is.  That pretty much rules out school at this point until the flare up is gone. We are definitely going to have to meet with the teachers and explain what's going on.  Emmett is miserable and refusing to eat.  I'm going to try different Popsicles if I can tonight and see if that will help. This is really a crappy thing for a kid to go through but even worse for a kid with the sensory issues that Emmett has.  - Lost and Tired Posted by Wordpress for Android via…

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Fun fact 8/30/2011

Always read the fine print.  We bought Autism Awareness plates for the van last year when we got it. They were more expensive...actually way more expensive but it was for a good cause. What I didn't know was that they were almost 2.5 times more expensive to renew every year.  I just found that out few minutes ago.  Standard tags in Ohio are about $34 however,  my Autism Awareness tags were almost $80 to renew today.  It's the same freakin sticker. I just about had a stroke when she gave me the final price.  I also had to renew my license this year as well,  which I had forgotten about. The moral of the story.....always read the fine print,  even if it's for a good cause.  

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