I have no idea what the hell is going great on but Gavin is straight up,  looking right through Lizze, as though she wasn't there.  He doesn't have any explanation for this.  He claims that he just forgets to ask her for things. Something doesn't feel right about this. It just weird me out. Maybe it's just a phase,  and it's only this creepy because his lack of emotion.  Perhaps it's completely innocent and nothing to worry about.  It just doesn't feel right.  I mean,  when you pair this up with the way he treats her when he does actually engage with her,  it's just not right.  I think we are going to have to focus a bit more on this in therapy.  For right now, I just do everything…

This afternoon,  Emmett got his shoes on, all by himself.  He even put them on the correct feet and everything.  I'm so totally proud of him and excited to share this accomplishment. Fantastic job Emmett,  Daddy is so friggin proud of you.  :-) **Thanks for reading**        -Lost and Tired Please join our Autism Help Forum Look for "Autism Help" app at the Google Play Store This was posted via WordPress for Android, courtesy of Samsung's Galaxy S III. Please forgive any typos. I do know how to spell but auto-correct is working against me.

Let me start off by saying that I'm not saying this is the case, it just feels this way.  I'm saying that it's eerily similar. I'm looking to see if anyone else has shared this type of experience. I have been noticing lately that there seems to be a certain pattern to Gavin's behaviors. I haven't pointed this out to Lizze yet because I'm not sure I should.  Although,  she'll be reading this at some point so I might as well. For those of you that don't know,  domestic violence is something that we,  in the Lost and Tired family take very seriously. Both Lizze and Gavin are survivors of domestic violence at the hands of Lizze's ex-husband (Gavin’s biological father). He was physically and emotionally abusive towards Lizze and…

Elliott and Emmett are in rare form as of late.  They can get along wonderfully one minute and than be at each others throats the next. I had the boys for 6 or 7 hours yesterday while Gavin was receiving his infusion. I pretty much lost my mind,  at least what's left of it. Elliott was whining and Emmett was screaming almost the entire time.  Needless to say,  no one took a nap either. Today,  Elliott was set off my Gavin manipulation and Emmett just responded to the increased level of stress in the house. I'm going to write a bit today and thanks lose myself in some Skyrim on the computer. Hope your day is going better... :-) **Thanks for reading**        -Lost and Tired Please join…

Already had issues with Gavin this morning. Not listening and trying manipulate his brothers. Elliott and Emmett are going to Lizze's parents for the night and we were supposed to go to my parents for pizza tonight. However, we told Gavin that because of his behavior, we would not be going to grandmas and therefore not have pizza for dinner. His reaction was that he didn't care. It appears as though we did a better job of punishing ourselves than him. However, if we back down....we just can't back down. I suppose we could be a bit more creative. Maybe we still go but he doesn't get to eat pizza but instead has oatmeal. That's a bit more aggressive than I was planning on going with this. Plus, he would likely freak out…

As many of you know,  my amazing wife battles Fibromyalgia every day.  I was thinking and began to wonder how many of you out there are dealing with something similar? As special needs parents,  our lives are filled with stress.  How do you manage to make it through the day when stress makes the symptoms of things like Fibromyalgia much worse? Please share a little bit about yourself and your struggle with pain disorders like Fibromyalgia...  Let show each other that we aren't alone.  **Thanks for reading**        -Lost and Tired Please join our Autism Help Forum Look for "Autism Help" app at the Google Play Store This was posted via WordPress for Android, courtesy of Samsung's Galaxy S III. Please forgive any typos. I do know how…

I thought I would take a second and update you all on Bella's recovery from surgery this past Monday. She's doing really well.  She's not in any pain or discomfort, which is nice.  Emmett is taking excellent care of her.  She is however,  a bit to active.  As a result, we have to keep her tethered to the couch so she can't run around. The stitches come out on this coming Thursday, and then she should be cleared to return to her hyperactive lifestyle. **Thanks for reading**        -Lost and Tired Please join our Autism Help Forum Look for "Autism Help" app at the Google Play Store This was posted via WordPress for Android, courtesy of Samsung's Galaxy S III. Please forgive any typos. I do know how…

Yesterday,  Gavin had his monthly antibody infusion.  Everything was pretty routine until about 15 minutes into the car ride.  Gavin began to enter an autonomic crisis. He became sick to his stomach and extremely light headed and dizzy. He lost all his color and he could barely hold himself up. Lizze notified the hospital of what was happening and they basically met her as she entered oncology.  They gave Gavin special meds so that he would vomit and make anything worse. After resting for a little while,  he stabilized and they proceeded with the infusion.  Because he was already having issues coming into the into the infusion,  and because he got sick after the last one,  they had to slow things way down.  He now gets and IV bolus of…