Tomorrow is the first day of school for Elliott and Gavin. Elliott is going to do great once again.  There will likely be a period of adjustment for him but he'll be fine.  Gavin on the other hand is a mystery.  I have no idea how his return is going to go. There are a great many factors to worry about,  his health being the biggest concern. I have great concern that this return to school is going to be more than his body can take. Time will tell.  Lizze and I will have to speak with the school about his new restrictions and he will likely have to sit out of Martial Arts and recess.  We're going to have to see how those things go and decide what to…

Today's #Autism Victory goes to both Elliott and Emmett,  who brushed their teeth without a problem tonight. Tooth brushing was a nightmare for so long.  Every morning and night we battled to do at least a decent job of cleaning the teeth.  Then we discovered the Phillips Sonic Care toothbrush and everything changed.  Long story short,  the boys are much more willing to brush their teeth now and actually seem to enjoy it. If you would like more information,  send me an email and I'll get back to you. Please note that this is not a plug or paid advertisement.  I've written about this before and I wanted to recognize my boys for the fine job they are doing.  :-) This was posted via WordPress for Android, courtesy of Samsung’s…

Today marks 9 years since Lizze and I exchanged vows. Wow, 9 years is a long time,  especially in today's society. I'm really proud of that and I know that Lizze is as well.  So much has happened in the last 9 years alone,  that I wouldn't even know where to begin if I were to try and recount it.  Despite all the heartache and pain, the constant stress of being a special needs parent and major health issues, we are still here.  Not only are we still here,  but we're here together. I was hoping that I would find some truly profound words to help convey how happy I am that we've made it this far,  but the have eluded me thus far.  As you all know,  I'm rarely…

This coming week will bring about big changes to the Lost and Tired family.  In this one week,  the boys will return to school,  we will meet with Dr. Patti to discuss Gavin and we will also have our first meeting with Stark County Wraparound. In between all of these things we will squeeze in at least 10 other appointments, ranging from occupational therapy to immunology.  This is going to be a challenging week because I also have a new article due Monday as well. The kids are also going to be adjusting to their new schedules and that by itself is not very easy, as I'm sure many of you can attest to.  My goal is to have as positive of an outlook as possible. Oh....and tomorrow is our…

Not 10 minutes after my last post,  I caught Gavin with Emmett between his legs.  He was sitting on the couch with his legs spread out. Emmett was kneeling on the floor and in between Gavin's legs.  This isn't the first time this has happened.  The last time was a few months ago and Gavin had Emmett burying his face in his crotch.  He encouraged Emmett to do this over and over until we caught him..... We immediately addressed this with Gavin this afternoon.  He claims he forgot he wasn't allowed to do that. He also claims that he doesn't remember us or Dr. Patti ever talking to him about this before.  Keep in mind that we have had countless discussions about this with him over the years and several…

One of the most difficult thing for me as a special needs parent is understanding the motives behind certain behaviors. Take Elliott for example.  He having a very difficult time listening and doing as he's told. This is somewhat out of character for him.  He's also incredibly anxious a day whiny.  This makes day to day life,  frustrating and exhausting. However,  I keep asking myself,  why is he doing this? Is this just a phase? Is he simply being defiant? My personal belief is that he is reacting to an understanding stable home life,  as one of my readers pointed out today. I've felt this way for a while and my opinion is backed up by the fact that when you remove him from the environment, he improves. Emmett is…