3 kids -1 kid = 2 kids

Tonight,  Emmett will be spending the night with Lizze's parents.  He'll be leaving in a little bit and likely to have lots of fun. That means we will only have 2 kids tonight. Elliott and I have plans for this evening and Gavin was not a candidate to go because both behavioral and health reasons.  I've promised Elliott some Portal 2 time tonight and he's really looking forward to that.  The way that works is that he gets ready for bed and takes his meds.  We play Portal 2 until he gets sleepy,  which is typically 30 after taking his melatonin.  He values the time and so do I.  I look forward to having some quality Portal 2 time with Elliott tonight.  :-) This was posted via WordPress for Android,…

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Our little emergency

This morning,  while getting the boys ready for nap,  I looked out the window and saw one of the neighbors cats torturing a baby squirrel. I went outside to chase the cat away and rescue the baby squirrel.  I chased the cat away once but couldn't find the little victim. After going back into the house and getting back to work,  I noticed the cat was back and going to town on the tiny squirrel. I grabbed a towel and ran out after it once again.  This time I found the squirrel and scooped it up and brought it home. I've never seen a baby squirrel before and this guy was pretty tiny.  There was no obvious signs of blood or injury but it wasn't walking very well. I wasn't…

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Dinner is on the stove

After getting Gavin off to school and dealing a little emergancy, the boys have eaten lunch and are off to nap. I'm working on a big pot of soup for dinner. I'll have a post up later about our little emergency and what actually happened etc. Right now I'm working on dinner,  writing and watching Supernatural. Dinner will be enjoyed by 4 of the 5 of us tonight.  Elliott will likely have chicken nuggets as he won't touch the soup.  That means I will be able to please 4 out of 5. I like those numbers. :-) This was posted via WordPress for Android, courtesy of Samsung’s Galaxy S III. Please forgive any typos. I do know how to spell but auto-correct hate me. Please join our Autism Help Forums…

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Down for the count

Elliott isn't feeling well today.  He came home from school yesterday and basically layed down for most of the afternoon.  That's not typical Elliott behavior. He went to bed early and woke up with a low grade fever. Hopefully this will turn out to be nothing and it doesn't spread throughout the rest of the family.  This was posted via WordPress for Android, courtesy of Samsung’s Galaxy S III. Please forgive any typos. I do know how to spell but auto-correct hate me. Please join our Autism Help Forums Look for "Autism Help" app at the Google Play Store

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Is your family supportive?

I expect that this question will bring about mixed answers.  However,  I wanted to try and see what your personal experience is on this subject. Do you find that your family and friends are supportive?  If so,  how are they supportive? If not,  why do you feel they aren't. Do think that it comes down to good intentions but a lack of understanding?  Is it an unwillingness to learn? I would really appreciate your feedback on this.  You certainly don't need name names. However, by openly discussing this,  not only do you find others in a similar boat hut also help those well intentioned people to better understand.  :-)   This was posted via WordPress for Android, courtesy of Samsung’s Galaxy S III. Please forgive any typos. I do know…

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Minor problems before school

I forgot to mention this yesterday. We did have some minor problems with Gavin before school.  Lizze wanted him to get dressed and wait in his room because she couldn't keep an eye on him at the moment.  After she told him what to do,  Gavin decided that he wasn't going to listen. He told her in reply, I'll meet you downstairs after I get dressed. Lizze told him again to stay and that he needs to listen. That time it stuck and he listened.  If Web weren't in the middle of everything that we're in the middle of,  I would chalk that up to teenage boligerance.  We didn't make a big deal out of this because, quite frankly, that wasn't a battle worth picking at the time. Things just…

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The high cost of stress

The cost of all those stress is very, very high. I think that the most profoundly affected by this is without question,  Lizze. She is at a point where she is barely walking. She literally overdid things today by simply getting out of bed this morning. I have some indication of how bad things are for her because she's using her cane in public. That's something that never happens,  unless things are really bad.  On the positive side,  at least Emmett is the only one home during the day now. I suppose I should qualify what I mean by at least Emmett is the only one home during the day now. Having Emmett by himself is still like living in a circus.  He's only one child and his adorable looks…

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Where to draw the line?

Where to draw the line? That's a question I can't seem to find the answer to. A few minutes ago,  we caught Bella,  the 8 month old Boxer puppy, licking what I would consider part of Gavin's crotch. Gavin claims he didn't realize she was doing that.  However,  when I said she was licking way too close to his privates,  he said she was licking the inside of his upper leg. So which is it? Did he not realize she was licking him or not? I don't know if this is him testing the limits or if this was truly innocent in nature and he just wasn't paying attention. Unfortunately, we have to assume that there was motive behind allowing this to continue.  We have to run a very tight…

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