Do you ever find yourself without any energy? Lately, I don't have the energy to do much of anything. One of the downsides to Gavin moving out is that fact that Lizze's parents have their hands full with him and son the other boys never go anywhere and we no longer get a break. This past week has caught up with me and I'm running in fumes. Lizze has been pushing herself all day long, despite my many requests for her to rest. She has gone through most of the laundry and trust me, that was a chore. However, now she's obliterated and literally cannot move.  She's passed out on the couch from both pain and exhaustion. When she gets like this and does this much work, she's usually down…

Emmett's been into eating fruit for the last day or so. He goes through the phases where all he wants is fruit or all he wants is junk food. Today happens to be a fruit day.  As you can see, Emmett is quite happy with with his apple and orange this morning.  I'm not going to complain.  Does fruit make your kids in the #Autism spectrum smile?

Elliott is in a reading contest at school.  The challenge is for him to read for 20 minutes a night.  The classroom with the most hours, wins a pizza party.  At least that's my understanding. With all the recent Gavin drama, we have gotten a bit behind on the reading.  However, Elliott has been reading almost every night and is actually reading by himself.  One of the reasons I got him the guide to his New Super Mario Bros 2 game is because I wanted him to make his passion for video games, advance his education.  He's working very hard to read this guide in order to advance in the game. He's honing his reading skills without even realizing it. Tonight he fell asleep surrounded in his favorite books.  This…

For dinner last night, we had homemade pizzas. The boys each made their own and did a fantastic job.  I wanted to share their creations.  They each made theirs a little different.  Elliott put his peperoni on top of the cheese, while Emmett put his underneath the cheese. When Emmett realized that his was different than Elliott's, he panicked and had a meltdown. In the end, he was okay with what he made.  He didn't eat more than a bite but he was okay. I explained to him that his pizza was perfect because he made it all by himself.  I told him that no one else could make a pizza quite the way he did.  That made his pizza very special. Sometimes when dealing with a 4 year old…

We've all heard the phrase, squeaky wheel gets the grease. In the Lost and Tired family, we have a version of this called he who cries the loudest, gets the attention. With 3 boys on the #Autism spectrum, there always seems to be something going on and somebody either crying or screaming about something.  I'm not saying that this happens simply because of the #Autism. Typically it's related to sensory issues or perhaps anxiety.  These things are just common amongst people on the #Autism spectrum. Anyway,  as a matter of survival or self-preservation, we gravitate towards the one that is the loudest.  I realize how bad that sounds but there is some logic to this.  Typically, in my family, we are very sensitive to loud noise.  So it stands to…

Here is the disclaimer.  Hopefully, this will help to avoid some of the hate mail. Please keep in mind that I'm referring to the impact #Autism has on my kids. I'm not referring to my kids themselves. My poor little Emmett John is in a fever flare again.  We noticed yesterday, that his tongue is full of little sores.  Typically, his mouth is full of really big sores when a flare up occurs.  This is new to us and aren't sure if this is better or worse than normal. Note this picture is from a previous flare. Hopefully you get the point though. I say that because the actual volume of sores is higher than normal.  They are smaller but there are more of them. Emmett doesn't really tell us…