Pet Peeve of The Day: Bumper Stickers

I make it a habit not to judge others as I don’t want to be judged myself. Having said that, every once in awhile I come across something that just drives me crazy. Today we were driving home from the grocery store and pulled up next to the nice Nissan Altima. I was driving so I couldn’t grab a picture. However, the back of this car had about 6 bumper stickers on it.  In my personal opinion, that’s the easiest way to devalue your car.   Let me say this.  If your a fan of defacing your car with with bumper stickers, more power to you.  However, for the love of God, put the friggin things on straight. It drives me crazy to see bumper stickers just slapped on the…

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What Just Happened?

As a father to three boys in the autism spectrum, I have pretty much gotten used to experiencing unusual behavior.  However, this morning has thrown me for a loop. Elliott spent the entire morning screaming and hitting himself. He was essentially behaving like Gavin. Something is going on and I have no idea what it is. It’s like all of a sudden, Elliott is moody and aggressive. He’s officially off his anti-anxiety medications.  Perhaps it will be a few more days before it clears his system. So far there is no change in behavior between being on the meds and off of them. Lizze also suggested that perhaps the anti-anxiety meds may have changed the way his body handles the ADHD meds. All I can say is that I can’t…

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Recommended android apps for kids with #autism

  I thought I would help you fill that shiny new android tablet you just got with some amazing apps. Below you will find a list of educational apps, all of which I have personally played with my own kids. These are all created by a company called Intellijoy. Intellijoy is the #1 developer of educational apps on the entire Google Play Store, and for good reason.  Every one of these apps will work fantastically on the highly recommended Samsung Galaxy Tab 2 (7.0) and the Samsung Galaxy Tab 7.0 Plus.  Check out the extensive list below and click on the app title, located beneath each icon, for a direct link to the install button located on the Google Play Store. Please note that there are both paid and free versions of these apps. This gives you…

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An over stimulating weekend

Elliott is not sleeping tonight.  I don't know what the heck is going on but I strongly suspect that it has something to do with all the Gavin time this weekend. Gavin had a pretty big tantrum yesterday but outside of that he was doing great.  It's like his physical presence in the house is simply disrupting. Perhaps this is similar to PTSD in the sense that the boys are afraid that at any minute, Gavin could go off into another rage. Even if he behaves perfectly, they are still worried.  Honestly, like I said, aside from the tantrum on Saturday, he did great. Still, the boys are all over the place. This is why we are trying to limit contact whenever possible.  This past week was filled with last…

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Things are crazy here at the moment

Elliott and Emmett have spent time with Gavin for the past three days.  To say that they are overstimulated would be an understatement. This is what happens every time the spend time with Gavin.  Emmett approached Lizze a few minutes ago and out of nowhere, told her,  "Mommy, I hate Gavin. His meltdowns make me feel scared." This is the second time that Emmett's said something like that, in the last few days.  I'm not really sure where he got that from, as we have never said that we hate Gavin, ever. It's really heartbreaking to here those words come out of my 4 year old Emmett John. This is definitely something that we are going to have to work with Dr. Patti on. Until then,we are just trying to…

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Goodbye @Sprint Hello @Tmobile

Lizze and I officially ported out our numbers from Sprint to Tmobile. The experience has been night and day compared to what I have experienced with Sprint.  Granted, it's only been a day, the service is far better than that of Sprint. My average data speed is 8500kbps down and 2000kbps up. I can actually download apps and even check my email using the Tmobile network. My sales rep was absolutely amazing and even gave me free cases for our new phones.  Also, I had three defective Galaxy Note II's in a row.  The stylus caused the screens to go crazy. It would also leave ink without actually touching the screen. They took care of the problem and we tested a total of 4 devices before finding one that worked…

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Don’t mess with my kids

A word of advice to anyone out there that would mess with my kids, don't do it. While I would put you in the ground myself, I discovered last night that I they can be vindictive little boogers. Emmett was frustrated with Maggie because she was intimidating his kitten, Sam, with her presence. Honestly, Maggie wasn't doing anything but Emmett felt that he was defending his kitten. I let him do just that.  I like to see my kids stand up for themselves, it makes me feel better about their future. I don't know if that even makes sense? Anyway, I suggested that Emmett put Maggie in her kenel for a little while, so his kitten would be scared. He did just that.  He put Maggie in her kenel. Maggie…

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Holding up the wall

As you may recall, Emmett is no longer in OT or Speech therapy. We have had to try and come up with things we can do at home, that will help him in these areas. Yesterday, I couldn't get him to settle down. He was completely overstimulated from Gavin's visit and was literally bouncing off of everyone and everything. Out of desperation I was like, Emmett I need you to hold the wall up for me buddy. I had him pushing against the wall as hard as he could.  Wouldn't you know it, it helped. After Lizze got home, she reminded me that his OT had suggested something like that as well.  She said we could have him push against the wall and get some sensory feedback.  We could also…

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