Hello tantrum its been awhile

Gavin is currently having a tantrum.  It's a pretty big one if I'm being honest.  He invaded Lizze's personal space once again and I caught him red handed. I told him he would be having oatmeal for dinner as a consequence.  He lost it.  He's pissed off at me because I took away his choice for dinner and gave him the default.... I had received some comments that oatmeal wasn't severe enough.  You have to keep in mind that while it doesn't seem like a big deal to you,  it's a huge deal to Gavin because I'm taking away control.  Anyways, the boys were once again terrorized and I'm now counting the minutes until he moves back to his grandparents, as bad as that sounds.  I'm done........

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What’s your favorite Commenting System and Why?

I'm back to reevaluating my commenting system on this site. I was wondering, as my readers, which commenting system you prefer? Please answer the poll and share your reasons in the comments below. I'm trying to make this site as user friendly as possible and I really need your feedback. Thanks   [polldaddy poll=6796480]

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Adding seafood to the allergy list??

While at Lizze's parents last night,  Elliott had shrimp cocktail. The shrimp was free from cross contamination and completely tree nut free.  However, Elliott's throat became scratchy after eating only one.  This is the second time this has happened.  However, the last time was prior to his recent tree nut allergy diagnosis and so we hadn't put two and two together. We gave him benadryl and he felt better.  Elliott will be returning to Akron Children's Hospital to have more allergy testing done ASAP. until then, we will simply avoid all seafood.

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How did your kids hold up this Christmas?

I was wondering how your kids held up this Christmas? Did you see any meltdowns or overstimulation? If you could do it over again, knowing what you know now, would you change anything you did this holiday season?? Will you be doing anything differently next year?

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Today’s #Autism Victory: Getting Along

Last night while we were at Lizze's parents for Christmas, Elliott and Emmett spontaneously began wrestling each other. The were giggling and laughing, without a care in the world.  To be completely honest, I was a bit annoyed because I was trying to get them ready to leave and they wouldn't cooperate with me.  However, taking a step back I realized that they were actually getting along and having fun. That in my eyes is victory.......  :-)

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It was too good to last: Confessions of a RAD parent

All good things come to an end.  I know that sounds cliche but it's also true.  Nothing lasts forever and that applies to the Lost and Tired family as well.  This is yet another sensitive topic but one that is profoundly affecting us right now.  Let me start out by saying that,  I had really hoped that Gavin could coexist with us. I wanted this not only for myself, but also Elliott, Emmett and Gavin as well. Unfortunately, Gavin's time at home has come to an end. As of 5pm today, Gavin is moving back to Lizze's parents. In many ways, Gavin's return home was not meant to be long term.  He simply had nowhere else to go during Christmas break.  Also, in the advent of his most recent autonomic…

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The Last Day of Christmas 2012

We celebrated Christmas with Lizze's parents last night. Everyone had a good time.  I wanted to share some pictures from the get together.  :-) This pretty much puts Christmas to rest until next year.  To be honest, I happy to say goodbye to Christmas.  It's sorta overstayed its welcome this year. 

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Christmas again

Our plans for the rest of the day are pretty straight forward.  The ultimate goal is of course survival.  However, if the stars are aligned and we are lucky, we'll see Dr.  Patti and then make our way to Lizze's parents house to celebrate Christmas again.  Assuming that everyone is behaving we should be able to get this stuff done.  Fingers crossed.

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