The semantics of #Autism

Every once in awhile I feel the need to focus some attention on something that really needs to be addressed.  My trip up the soapbox today is brought to you by the semantics of #Autism. When I refer to the Semantics of #Autism, I'm referring to the splitting of hairs over word choice.  This has really become kind of disheartening and I'll tell you why.  Before I share why I find this disheartening, let me explain what's going on first.  Basically, this splitting of hairs is over whether one should say "a child with autism" or "an autistic child". In other words, if you are talking to someone about your child and Autism is brought up, should you say "Jonny has autism" or "Jonny is autistic"? In my opinion, either…

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The lighter side of #Autism: Safe and Sound

I grabbed this picture earlier. Emmett had fallen asleep while sitting with Mommy under the electric blanket on the couch. This was just too cute and I wanted to freeze that moment and subsequently share it with all of you. Isn't he just adorable? The correct answer is yes. :-) This was posted via WordPress for Android, courtesy of Samsung’s Galaxy Note 2. Please forgive any typos. I do know how to spell but auto-correct hate me. Please join our Autism Help Forums Look for "Autism Help" app at the Google Play Store

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The Food Coma

Emmett had an afternoon snack, chocolate pudding,  and then feel fast asleep on the couch.  This is what we call a food coma. A food coma is when you fall fast asleep after eating a snack or dinner.  This is most common around Thanksgiving, for example.  :-) His pudding stained face is just so precious.  :-)

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From clean to disaster in no time flat

My boys are multitalented and I love them very much. Having said that, they seem to excel in one particular area.  They can go from a clean room to a complete disaster area in no time flat.  Every night before bedtime, their room gets picked up and shortly after waking up in the morning, this is what I find.  :'(

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What do you love most about your child with #Autism?

As a way of spreading #Autism Awareness, I thought it would be neat to share some of the things we love most about our kids on the #autism spectrum. I feel that we need to approach awareness in a different way. A less clinical and more personal way. To do this, I thought we could start out by simply sharing what we love most about our kids. It could be anything. Let's begin by focusing on a few positives and then we can move into others down the road. :-) I'm very happy to go first. One of the things I love most about my kids with #Autism is their ability to show compassion. They don't always understand the how's and why's but they can feel when something is wrong…

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That’s the goal

Good morning everyone. I hope your Sunday is a pleasant one. So far, Sunday has been pretty good to us. The boys are getting along, for the most part. Lizze is suffering a great deal this morning though. I'm going to try and keep this a very low key kinda day. Hopefully, I can get some writing and housework done this afternoon. That's the goal anyway. This site is managed via WordPress for Android, courtesy of the @SamsungMobileUS Galaxy Note 2 by @Tmobile. Please forgive any typos. I know how to spell but auto-correct hates me.  ;-) For more ways to help the Lost and Tired family, please visit Help the Lost and Tired Family.

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Okay, that’s it

Until further notice, Lost and Tired will be discontinuing use of the LiveFyre commenting system and reverting back to Intensedebate. The issue is affecting a large portion of my readers, especially those using iOS devices like, the iPad and iPhone. Part of the issue has to do with CloudFlare incompatibilities with LiveFyre. While these are being worked on it's making commenting on this site impossible for some. I have to continue using CloudFlare because of the volume of traffic and subsequent load on the server. Thank you all for helping me work through this. If someone could test the new commenting system from an iOS device I would appreciate it. Please let me know if you have anymore problems. This site is managed via WordPress for Android, courtesy of the…

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Please keep Lizze in your thoughts

I posted something on Lizze's blog earlier about this and I wanted to say something here as well. I'm asking that you please keep Lizze in your thoughts and prayers. She's not doing well emotionally or physically. To be completely honest, I've never seen her this bad. Her pain is absolutely out of control and there is nothing we can do. I left a message for the Chronic Pain Rehabilitation Program and I'm waiting to hear back. At the moment, the program is open to her however, we are still waiting on insurance to approve or deny coverage for this program. I'm to the point where I willing to explore other options while we wait to find out from insurance. I'm kicking around a few ideas but I don't know…

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