Do #Autism Organizations really help #autistic people and their families?

As Lost and Tired becomes more and more popular both inside and outside of the community, I am sometimes asked to support a non-profit #Autism Organization. To be completely honest, I almost never align myself with any organization. It's not because I'm a loner or don't play well with others.  It's because I have yet to really find an organization that I have personal knowledge of that actually makes a difference in the day to day lives of autistic persons and/or their families.  This has been sort of a pet peeve of mine for awhile.  I'm certainly not saying that these #Autism organizations don't help the cause.  It just seems like sometimes they become too big for their own good. When this happens, it feels like to me, their message…

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#Autism and the importance of a support system

We had a change of plans this morning. Lizze, normally takes Gavin to his IVIG Infusion every month. Typically, it's easier for her to sit with Gavin for the 4 or 5 hours that he's in the infusion lab than stay at home wrangling Emmett. Unfortunately,  she can barely move today.  Yesterday morning she fell down the steps and bruised herself up pretty bad.  She called her mom and explained that she couldn't take Gavin today.  Here mom didn't even hesitate to fill that role today and escort Gavin to his treatment today. We are so lucky that we have a support system in place for these types of situations.  Lizze and I are both endlessly grateful for the love and support of our parents.  Without them, I don't what…

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The 1st IVIG Infusion of 2013

Today is Gavin's first IVIG infusion of 2013. This makes 2 years of successful treatment for his primary immunodeficiency.  When I say successful, I mean hasn't gotten much worse. He hasn't gotten seriously I'll and his dosage has only needed to be increased once. He will need these infusions for the rest of his life but he does really well and never complains about the 4+ hour procedure.  It's amazing how fast time has gone by. It feels like we just got blindsided by the diagnosis yesterday.  I remember getting the phone call letting us know that he had a severely compromised immune system. We were totally shocked because in all his 11 years, no one had ever picked up on this. It was the gastro doing a followup blood…

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Picking our battles and celebrating the victories

I wish that Elliott and Emmett's would get along today.  Some of the problem is Emmett's button pushing and some of the problem is Elliott's very limited threshold for frustration. Putting the two together makes for a very volatile day.  They have actually done fairly well this evening,  only having one major blow out between them. Elliott finished his homework in record time and Emmett got ready for bed with minimal headache.  I'm making a conscience choice to try and focus on the victories,  even if they are small ones. Having said that,  despite my trying day, we have a couple victories to celebrate.  You know,  Elliott got off to school without so much as a whimper today and that's awesome.  Emmett even allowed me to take Elliott to school…

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Playing Viva Piñata with my #autistic son

All three of my boys love playing video games. Recently, Emmett has really gotten into playing the Xbox 360. We're pretty selective about what we allow him to actually play. One of his favorite games is Viva Piñata. Talk about exploring the far reaches of his imagination. He's able to create these beautiful gardens and attract and subsequently care for these colorful piñata type creatures. It's an older game but most definitely a good one, especially for kids.  It's really cool to watch him create and care for these virtual gardens and treat them as though they were real. Is there a particular game that your kids really love to play? This site is managed via WordPress for Android, courtesy of the @SamsungMobileUS Galaxy Note 2 by @Tmobile. Please forgive any…

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Lizze fell down the stairs today

Lizze was up all night with fibro induced insomnia,  again.  Early the morning I was awoken to Lizze's screaming and Elliott and Emmett's crying.  Moments before I awoke,  Lizze had fallen down the stairs as was screaming in pain.  The boys were crying, because they had witnessed her fall. I don't think she needs the hospital because the fall wasn't bad.  Having said that, she's out of commission for the day. I was up with her as long as I could last night, so I'm exhausted and do barely able to keep my eyes open. This site is managed via WordPress for Android, courtesy of the @SamsungMobileUS Galaxy Note 2 by @Tmobile. Please forgive any typos. I know how to spell but auto-correct hates me.  ;-) For more ways to help…

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It’s 2am and sleep escapes me

It's about 2am and Lizze is in too much pain to sleep. I have a hard time falling asleep when I know she's not able to sleep.  So,  here I am at 2am, writing about not being able to sleep.  Right now, the stress and especially the weather is caused a really bad fibro flare and Lizze just can't shake it.  Mindless reality TV on Netflix......here we come.  This site is managed via WordPress for Android, courtesy of the @SamsungMobileUS Galaxy Note 2 by @Tmobile. Please forgive any typos. I know how to spell but auto-correct hates me.  ;-) For more ways to help the Lost and Tired family, please visit Help the Lost and Tired Family.

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Remember the magic of @Highlights

My grandmother, God love her, bought the kids sure subscriptions to Highlights. Do you remember Highlights? I used to love Highlights and they always helped me pass the time while waiting at the doctors office. Highlights was one of the coolest magazine ever and now my kids get to have the same experience. Apparently, now there is a Highlights for different age groups as well. Lizze spent some time this afternoon reading with Emmett. I haven't heard him giggle like that in a few days. He loved the hidden pictures and was able to find most of them on his own. Thanks Grandma..... You sure know how to pick'em. :-) Now I just need to find out if they cater to 34 years olds. :-) This site is managed via…

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