What do you say when someone asks “how are you doing?”

I know it may seem like an easy question to answer but for a special needs parent, that's not always the case. The truth is that this is a loaded question not easily answered. Speaking from personal experience, most people can't really handle the truth. People ask me all the time how I'm doing.  Typically, if they're asking me in person, than they likely don't read my blog.  So I generally answer them with something that they will be comfortable hearing, like, "I'm going great, how about you?" What am I supposed to say? If I answer them truthfully, things become pretty awkward.  There are times that I've had a really bad day and someone asks me how I'm doing.  I've been known to be really honest and you should…

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The Thirty Day Water challenge: Day 3

There have been a few questions about this whole challenge thing.  Let me clarify a few things.  This is not a water only diet.  I eat whatever I would normally I just only drink water.  This isn't some crazy diet.  It's about making small changes and improving ones health.  No more no less. That said, I'm on day three of driving only water.  I did another 64 oz of water today. This may seem easy and in a way it is.  However, there are still times that I really want something else to drink, especially with dinner.  There's not alot in my life right now that is within my control.  This is something that is and I'm proud of myself for sticking with it. Who knows, maybe by the time…

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The day full of meltdowns

Today has absolutely been an off day.  Emmett has melted down countless times already and for seemingly no reason.  I mean I know there is probably a reason, I just don't know ow what it is.  One meltdown occurred as a result of him dropping a fruit snack on the floor.  That's all it took to trigger a 30 minute meltdown. It's been rough for him and it's been rough for me.  Lizze is incapacitated today once again,  so I'm basically on my own.  The sudden changes in weather have caused a massive fibro flare up, rendering her literally unable to move around much at all. She's is so much pain and there isn't anything we can do to help her.  For that matter, the fact that something is wrong…

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Building a Marble World

Emmett has sorta pulled out of his funk and even stepped outside of his Spiderman costume.  Right now he's lost in Marble World. Marble World is a construction set made of tracks and tubes. When built it allows marbles to race through it. This site is managed via WordPress for Android, courtesy of the @SamsungMobileUS Galaxy Note 2 by @Tmobile. Please forgive any typos. I know how to spell but auto-correct hates me.  ;-) For more ways to help the Lost and Tired family, please visit Help the Lost and Tired Family.

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The early morning meltdown

This morning started out really well and then all of a sudden, Emmett just seems to really be struggling.  We had our first meltdown of the day already and it's not even 7 am. I'm hoping to be able to turn things around after I get Elliott to school.  I haven't given up on the day just yet. This site is managed via WordPress for Android, courtesy of the @SamsungMobileUS Galaxy Note 2 by @Tmobile. Please forgive any typos. I know how to spell but auto-correct hates me.  ;-) For more ways to help the Lost and Tired family, please visit Help the Lost and Tired Family.

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What I learned from Spiderman

For whatever reason, Emmett decided that he was going to dress up as Spiderman today. Everywhere we went today, he was Spiderman.....and I mean everywhere. I'm of the opinion that I was lucky to be in the presence of Spiderman today.  Emmett was so cute and so happy being Spiderman today.  Who was I to take that away from him.  He wasn't hurting anyone, unless you were a bad guy at which point he trap you with his webshooters. Other than that, he wasn't hurting anyone.  :-) I look at it like this. Can it be weird walking into a store while Emmett was in his costume? Sure.  Do people stare at me like I'm crazy for letting him out of the house like that? Of course they did. However,…

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Thirty Day Water Challenge: Day 2

I just finished up day 2 of the Thirty Day Water Challenge.  Today I drank about 64 oz of the clear stuff and stayed away from anything else.  The whole point is to drink only water for 30 days. So far so good.   This site is managed via WordPress for Android, courtesy of the @SamsungMobileUS Galaxy Note 2 by @Tmobile. Please forgive any typos. I know how to spell but auto-correct hates me.  ;-) For more ways to help the Lost and Tired family, please visit Help the Lost and Tired Family.

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“Like” this post if you love someone with #Fibromyalgia

If you love someone with #Fibromyalgia please "Like" this post and pass it along. :-) Let's generate some love for our loved ones dealing this invisible pain. :-) This post is dedicated to my amazing wife, Lizze This site is managed via WordPress for Android, courtesy of the @SamsungMobileUS Galaxy Note 2 by @Tmobile. Please forgive any typos. I know how to spell but auto-correct hates me.  ;-) For more ways to help the Lost and Tired family, please visit Help the Lost and Tired Family.

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