Sometimes bad news can be good
Sometimes bad news can have a way of making you feel better. In this case, it makes me feel a bit less crazy. I realize that's sounds counter intuitive so let me explain. For a really long time, especially with Gavin, it was so incredibly frustrating that he would behave the way he did at home but when at a relatives house, we get a report of great behavior when he returns. The truth is, his behavior wasn't perfect and he had problems. However, our family felt guilty telling us that. They didn't want us to feel bad. That was really sweet of them. However, this didn't have the intended impact on Lizze and I. Instead, it made us feel like we were crazy. Sometimes as parents, we need someone…