How Reactive Attachment Disorder impacts our family

You would do not believe the impact that stress can have on the human body. Well, maybe you can. I mean, anyone that's a parent, let alone a special needs parent, is probably all too familiar with stress. This past week has been extremely stressful for the Lost and Tired family. It's started out fine but then that sneaky bastard known as Monday, showed it's ugly face once again, throwing our lives further into chaos. Between Gavin being rushed to the ER at Akron Children's Hospital for another autonomic crisis then returning home for almost a week, planning for our next wraparound meeting, Elliott being home from school all week with a nasty sinus infection, scrambling to locate resources that will help us with our pending gas shut off tomorrow…

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Seeing the world through smudge caked glasses

I have this weird little thing.  I'm huge into technology, which isn't a secret. However, I'm also very particular about things as well.  My phone for example, is cleaned daily. I love spraying the cleaning spray on the screens of things like phones, tablets, TV and laptops, then gently wiping them clean with a nice microfiber cloth. Much like the Monk, on the old TV show with the same name, smudges drive me nuts. As a parent to 3 boys that lay down the smudges faster than I can wipe them up, I sometimes feel myself just twitching, when I go to turn on the TV and see the finger smudges all over it.  Now we have a new smudge collector in the house and I'm twitching a lot more…

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#Autism Discussion: Has parenting been all that you thought it would be?

I was wondering how you all felt about parenting. Has parenting, up to this point in your life, been everything you thought it would be? If you have a special needs child, how has that impacted you? The reason I'm asking this is because I think that everyone has expectations when they are younger about how being a parent and raising a family will be.  Sometimes, life can throw you a curveball in the form of a special needs child. Don't assume that being a curveball means anything bad.  It's simply referring to an unplanned change of course or the beginning of a new journey. It's simply different than what you may have envisioned parenting being like. I would really like to hear your opinions. :-) This site is managed…

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Chicken Soup for the parenting soul

I made another huge stock pot of my famous Chicken Noodle Soup.  I made it a bit different this time. Here's what's inside: 8 fresh chicken  quarters 2 large bags of fresh mixed veggies (broccoli, carrots etc) Flax oil Oatmeal Dandelion greens Frozen pasta 2 large red onions Everything boils for about 6 hours before I add the noodles.  This is Emmett's favorite thing I make and he usually has about 2 bowls. Elliott won't come within 10 feet of it. Lizze, who does not the typically like chicken noodle Soup but she really likes mine.  I'm able to hide tons of veggies in the soup so that those who eat it,  don't even realize there's anything hidden.. This site is managed via WordPress for Android, courtesy of the @SamsungMobileUS…

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Facing the fallout

Gavin left last night to go back to his Grandparents house. He was home all week and while for the most part he was doing okay, the impact of him being home is being felt, even after his departure. I refer to this impact as fallout. Elliott and Emmett don't get along very well when Gavin has been home for any period of time. Truthfully, they don't get along all the time anyway but it's much worse when Gavin's been involved. I'm not entirely sure what is behind this behavioral change in the boys but I suspect it has to do with everything they have been through when Gavin actually lived here full time. The boys absolutely love Gavin but at the same time have learned to fear him as…

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Confessions of a special needs Dad: Our plan going forward

Once again, here is the video blog I promised.  This is about 5 minutes long but it goes pretty quick.  By watching this, you will learn about how our meeting today went and what our plan is, going forward. I'm also sporting my new Lost and Tired t-shirt. It says Lost and Tired on the front and I love someone with Autism on the back.  :-) Please let me know what you think of this video and whether or not you like the idea of video blogs.  Thanks again. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-xUgckdQ3AE This site is managed via WordPress for Android, courtesy of the @SamsungMobileUS Galaxy Note 2 by @Tmobile. Please forgive any typos as autocorrect HATES me. ;-) Check out my #Autism Awareness Store to find really cool and unique #Autism Awareness…

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We finally have a plan

I wanted to let everyone know that the wraparound meeting got off to a rough start  but ended on a really, really positive note.  Without going into too many details at the moment, we have figured out a way to better manage his medication and still keep him outside of the home. I plan on doing another video blog later today because that will be the easiest way to catch you all up. I promise I will keep it short and sweet.  :-) This site is managed via WordPress for Android, courtesy of the @SamsungMobileUS Galaxy Note 2 by @Tmobile. Please forgive any typos as autocorrect HATES me. ;-) Check out my #Autism Awareness Store to find really cool and unique #Autism Awareness Clothing and Accessories, designed by me. ;-)…

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Operation Hope: The push for residential care begins

This morning, we will be meeting with Wraparound and attempting to pull off the impossible.  I will be leading this meeting and we will not be leaving that room until every last one of us is on the same goddamm page. It's become painfully obvious that not everyone is on  the same page and that's going to change, beginning this morning.  Here's how this is going to work.  Your either with us or your against us. Sure, that probably sounds dramatic but unfortunately, it's become a necessary evil because not everyone recognizes that Gavin has significant problems and needs way more help than he can get at home. I feel like this lack of unity is delaying any progress on the funding front and I'm  done playing nice.  Anyone who…

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