Please keep Lizze in your thoughts today

Lizze will be having one of the worst days of her life today.  She will be saying her final goodbyes to her Aunt this morning. The funeral begins at 11 am and Lizze could use all the love, support and e-hugs we can muster for her. As I mentioned earlier, I will be home with Emmett, who is in an absolutely horrible and I mean horrible mood. So far this morning, he has spent most of his time screaming at everyone for reasons unknown. This is going to be a really, really, really long day.  I'm going to try and get Emmett to take a nap after lunch because I have a really important conference call to make around 1pm. Regardless of how today goes, tomorrow begins a new chapter…

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Shifting symptoms have come full circle

Gavin was home for a few hours yesterday evening.  While he can't live here at this time, it was nice to be able to spend some time with him. In short spurts, Gavin is manageable at home.  Things become more difficult the longer he stays. Lizze put the two youngest down to bed and I stayed downstairs with Gavin until her Mom picked him up.  Gavin spent most of the time talking to me about Sonic and how far he's gotten in his various Sonic games.  It's really interesting that while he can hold a very basic conversation, he can go on for hours on end about Sonic.  :-) He's never really interested in what I have to say, he just wants to talk about Sonic.  This reminds me of…

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Special needs parenting and no win scenarios

As a special needs parent, I very often face what I refer to as no win scenarios. Lizze and I seem to bounce from one no win scenario to the next. Our current one involves the recent loss of a loved one. This week we have the services and a funeral. We also have 3 very special, very sensitive boys that we have to make sure stay above water and right now the seas are rough. In order to make sure that Lizze gets to where she needs to be and ensure the boys are sheltered from the emotional storm that is about to hit. While our solution is less than ideal, it's a solution that allows for Lizze to be with her family in the morning and attend the…

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#Autism Awareness Month is more than a fundraiser or platform to debate #Vaccines

To this father of 3 on the Autism Spectrum, Autism Awareness Month means a great deal to me.  It means that for the month of April, the media will be once again interested in the Autistic Community. When I think of the Autistic Community, I included persons with Autism (of any age) and their families. When the media takes interest in Autism, as a community we can and should take full advantage of this because our voices can be broadcast across the world. How we choose to use this attention, greatly impacts it's effectiveness and overall benefit on the Autism Community as a whole. Typically, it seems that this brief window of opportunity is squandered and not used in an effective manner. I know I may sound like a scratched…

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A morning filled with good choices

I have to give Elliott mad props this morning because he got himself ready for school, ate breakfast and took his meds without a single issue.  There are many mornings where everything is a complete disaster a d we get little to no cooperation. Today however, Elliott showed us all, just how awesome he can do.  On a day frought with grief, as services for Lizze's Aunt are this afternoon, this was a great start to the day.  Great work Elliott, we're very proud of you.  :-) This site is managed almost exclusively via WordPress for Android, courtesy of the @SamsungMobileUS Galaxy Note 2 by @Tmobile. Please forgive any typos as autocorrect HATES me. ;-) Check out my #Autism Awareness Store to find really cool and unique #Autism Awareness Clothing…

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I’m so proud of my boys

Elliott and Emmett got along pretty well today and for that, I'm extremely proud of them. There is certainly a lot of stress in the Lost and Tired house and typically that causes anxiety and overstimulation. For whatever reason, the stars aligned and they decided to play nice. I think that the XBOX and Minecraft had something to do with it. :-) Having said that, beggars can't be choosers. This site is managed almost exclusively via WordPress for Android, courtesy of the @SamsungMobileUS Galaxy Note 2 by @Tmobile. Please forgive any typos as autocorrect HATES me. ;-) Check out my #Autism Awareness Store to find really cool and unique #Autism Awareness Clothing and Accessories, designed by me. ;-) For more ways to help the Lost and Tired family, please visit…

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#Autism and talking about death or loss

I think that this is an extremely important topic and one that we are experiencing right now. How do you talk to your Autistic child about death? I think that this is a very sensitive issue because we have very sensitive kids. How do you explain to a child, let alone a child with Autism, that a loved one has passed on? How a situation like this is handled can have a lasting impact on your child. I spoke to Elliott and Emmett this morning because they were going to noticed that something was different about Mommy. For anyone that's a bit tardy to the party, Lizze lost her Aunt Paula early this morning. She fought a war against cancer for a very, very long time. She is among the…

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Today’s #Autism and #SPD Victory: Overcoming Taste and Textures

Having just suffered a loss in the family this morning, I'm trying really hard to be positive.  Luckily, I didn't have to look very far at all.  Mr. Emmett John is drinking one of Daddy's nasty smoothies. This smoothie contained the following: Blueberries Mixed Berries Banana Kale Oatmeal Flax oil Egg white Skim Milk When asked if it tasted good, Emmett replied "not exactly, but it's good for my body". I have to admit, this particular smoothie was pretty gross, healthy but gross. Emmett drank his entire glass and still wanted more.  Even more impressive to me was how he not only overlooked the taste but also the texture. It had the consistency of lumpy sand.  My hats off to Emmett on this one.  Great job little man. :-) This…

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